#nonbinaryfinery

The new clothes i got. I love them so muchhh Also my gay platforms hehe (Thx to my sister for taking the photo) • • • • • • • • • • #transmakeup #transphotographer #transgender #transpride #gothbabes #transgoth #gothgirl #gothgirls #nonbinaryfinery #transgirl #motd #transmodel #altmodel #gendereuphoria #gaypunk #lesbian https://www.instagram.com/p/ClKLwuxyJDJ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Yesterday was international #nonbinary day!!! I didn’t know!!!! ✨ ✨ Welcome to this first ever official post about my gender :D Many have known this for a long time, some still forget, but i am nonbinary / a genderless blob. I’ve been struggling with my gender expression and just self expression in general, but i always know for sure that at my core, I do not identify with or ‘feel like’ anything related to woman- or manhood. I’m glad that other people can feel that, but I certainly don’t and I’m not in any way 'broken’ because of that. I don’t need to restore my bond to femininity or explore some weird idea of masculinity. I’m me and I’m good with that, even if I sometimes wish I could change my appearance. Gender is an important factor we need to keep in mind when talking about privileges and injustice in this world, but I personally just don’t 'have’ one :D (still others read and treat me as a womxn and it’s gross. Sexism is gross.) Have a lovely day and if you’re like me, revel in your nonbinary finery! #they #them #their #lgbtq #nonbinaryfinery https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz7k8RPiMep/?igshid=1rf0h2dy9grof

Ok here's the dress i got today 🦇🐱 (I don't look the best, ignore that) Gonna do a whole outfit soon and post that sometime.

the fact that i can serve looks like this during fall?? sweater weather WHOM, LA weather is a dream 🌴😌💙✨ #nonbinary #nonbinarypride #nonbinaryfinery #nonbinarytrans #nonbinarycuties #enby #enbyfashion #enbypride #queerfashion #queercuties #queer #lgbtq🌈 #lgbtq #qpoc #qtpoc #transisbeautiful #queerpride #transcutie #nb #genderfluid #gendernonconforming #nothingwronghair #queerfluence #kueerz #degenderfashion #lafashion (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CVvjZsePGYr/?utm_medium=tumblr

this phase of life feels like another rebirth, a renaissance of my soul. letting go of pain. letting in love & joy, protecting my peace. honoring myself. & my truth. feels good man. 💙 #nonbinary #nonbinarypride #nonbinaryfinery #nonbinarytrans #nonbinarycuties #enby #enbyfashion #enbypride #queerfashion #queercuties #queer #lgbtq🌈 #lgbtq #qpoc #qtpoc #transisbeautiful #queerpride #transcutie #nb #genderfluid #gendernonconforming #nothingwronghair #queerfluence #kueerz #degenderfashion https://www.instagram.com/p/CU4cVFHr9RN/?utm_medium=tumblr

today i co-facilitated a 1 ½ hr LGBTQ+ & Gender-Expansive Youth presentation/workshop for my colleagues. there were almost 70 people in attendance: some i work with daily, some who kinda knew me, some who may have been seeing me for the first time. this was the face they saw, this was the look i served, this is what was presented along with the presentation. this included me sharing explicitly that i am a non-binary trans person, and some of my lived-experiences. it was nerve-wracking to be that vulnerable and real (i called my look “tropical Mimi Bobek” in front of our CEO RIP!!! ☠️) but i feel so happy to have done it. i know i post a lot of feelings, stories, experiences, etc etc but i am not particularly fond of putting everything out there for people who aren’t my “friends.” lately, though, i’ve been practicing a lot more radical vulnerability. especially at work. it’s scary and unnatural to me, my introverted lil scorpio ass. like most of the pics i take of my looks are at home, in the safe space i share with my friends, so i go largely unchallenged on that front. i’ve been pushing myself more lately to show up as myself, however i choose to do so that day, whenever i can. it feels… good. i also try to ground myself during moments of insecurity and anxiety, to keep in mind that this is important work; whether it’s the workshop and the information it gives to colleagues and allies, or whether it’s being visible, it’s doing something. it’s (hopefully) giving visibility to a previously ignored and invisible population who have such a rich view and experience to share. it’s (hopefully) changing and expanding minds, and it’s (hopefully) going to leave the world better off than it was when i was growing up. sometimes all i have is hope, and lately i have a lot of it. hope and pride. 🤍

mírame, mírame bien a la cara y dime mírame, mira bien todo mi cuerpo y dime mírame, quiero que hoy me digas toda la verdad ✨🧚🏽✨ #nonbinary #nonbinaryfashion #nonbinarycuties #nonbinaryfinery #nothingwronghair #enby #enbycuties #queer #queerfashion #bodyodyody #trans #transisbeautiful #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtq🌈 #thirsttrapthursday #thirsttrap https://www.instagram.com/p/CM285J4JyWK/?igshid=1kfjpojj34yom