'Gender' is like music:
The song is different for each member of a symphony:
One note is played, always
The assigned note doesn't fit quite right and needs to be adjusted to make the song whole
A note can be slightly off key, intentionally or confusingly
Some hold chords, two or more notes at the same time
Others play all the notes at once, like a toddler striking all the keys on a keyboard, yet it sounds strangely sweet
Pheraps there is silence, becauses no notes are on the scale. Silence holds its own power
Or the note is so high it can't be heard by humans
Or the note is fluid. The lyrics change depending on the day or location.
The song of each person can range from death metal to folk music, classical orchestral to smooth jazz.
Its varied, and messy
But all together, its a dazzling calamity of human experience
