#nonanonask

Oh, yes, we’re the “disgusting ones.” Yet. When exclusionists send hate to people like this. INCLUDING MINORS (we’re not a minor but systems who are minors have gotten hate exactly like this). There’s apparently nothing wrong with it. If an endo sent this to someone it would all be like “oh look, they are freaks.” But when an exclusionist does it, they often times either get cheered on, shrugged off, or written off as “well they’re just traumatised it’s okay.” Keep in mind that hate just like this was sent to a minor. To the point where the anon was claiming they were getting their friends into it! At this point, it isn’t about syscourse, it’s just absolutely disgusting. Also, what “disgusting comments” have we made about anyone? We’ve just been bluntly honest about everything and we’ve never misgendered someone or purposely crossed any boundaries without ours or a friend’s being crossed first (only in reference to dnis; we’d never attack someone in the way this one anon did). Besides, we have never met a civil or respectable system exclusionist. They all attack people, post people’s private info and conversations to reddit, or send hate to people’s ask boxes. Those that don’t either don’t exist or they don’t participate in the syscourse. Not that there aren’t disgusting system inclusionists out there, we’ve met our fair share. But we’ve met far more abusive and just straight up shitty system exclusionists that think they help by attacking and fakeclaiming people online just to prove they’re the “real ones.” We’re all real, everyone’s experiences are real. Just because you can’t experience them doesn’t make them fake. But this??? Exclusionist Anons sending disgusting messages to people, purposely misgendering them, wishing trauma on them, causing trauma to people, being a fucking creep isn’t okay. At the end of the day, I don’t give a damn if someone is a system exclusionist or not. We don’t post the things we do to sway them. We post them to help and inspire those who are inclusionists and who are trying to find their way into this community to a place that isn’t built around fakeclaiming and cringe culture. A place built on supporting each other and positivity without worrying that their system, even if it’s traumagenic, is going to get them fakeclaimed because they’re inclusive or because they don’t function exactly how other people think they should. Yeah, the inclusive community definitely takes their pot shots at the exclusive community, but the biggest community spaces are built on “you know your system best and you’re valid and we’re going to try to support you as much as we can.” Besides, when the exclusive community has it’s biggest and most well known space as r/systemcringe (previously r/DIDCringe) where they claim we steal their stuff but are infiltrating our spaces to steal screenshots and information for “cringe,” there is very little to be respectful towards. Not to mention them making claims that fictive, factive, etc are their words or that they’re medical words when they aren’t, directly lying to the community about said words. What are they really being truthful about? Nothing. It’s just a community filled with fear and hate. And if this fucking disgusting anon who thinks this is a good use of their time and that this is somehow okay doesn’t at the very least show that exclusionists can be disgusting, filthy people too then we have nothing more to say to you.

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(Tw disgusting language, misgendering, d-addy talk in image)