#non binary help

(there needs to be a better word for gear thats like binders, discs, packing, breast forms, bras, shapewear, underwear, etc cause this stuff isnt even specifically trans anyone can use it all its just i really dont know what to call it for a more general all encompassing word)

Any opinions?

Also I want to mention that my friends had only good intentions here, they've all been pretty great at adjusting to me being non-binary and I knew if I told them it made me uncomfortable they would respect that.

Well, I think I'm more lost than ever

Quick question: am I male passing like this? I don't have enough for a binder and I can't figure out bandage by myself, so im improvising with a interior shirt way too small folded over 3 times and then another tight interior shirt, I don't think it's healthy but I only plan to use it twice while I'm on a trip to see how comfy I am being read as male.. thoughts?

If your parents/friends/family do not accept you for who you are, kick their asses to the curb. I'm your mother now and I will call you the name you choose, use your preferred pronouns, hug you when you're sad, and kick the shit out of anyone who dares to disrespect my children. If you're not happy with the family you have, you're more than welcome to become a part of mine. I have a strong network of people you can turn to for anything you may need. I can't pretend to understand your struggle, but I'm sure as hell going to do everything in my power to help you through it.