- is it really such a bad/evil thing to have love for someone. Now I'm not speaking being in love, I'm referring to just having feels that can grow to be deep. Cuss it's like you care about someone then the think your ready to settle down and start planning the rest of you're life with them. Like chill out I'm just want to see you nsh, hey even have a connection or be intimate. Shit ain't catchin me puttin a ring on it lmao, just consistency. But see where I live that doesn't exist with all these thots/pops w/e you wanna call em. See thought I had that, but just cuss everything seem good it's NEVER m case. Sorry kinda got off topic. But really want to know is it horrible to care and focus on the positives of that other person. Not the negatives that they have or flaws.