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Hi this is my submission for Soul Eater Resonance Bang 2020! So happy to be participating in this event again. 2020 was a weird year to say the least, but I'm grateful for the MODs for continuing the event which has been a comfort. I had the joy of working with @bellflowerss​ and @blinkfl0yd be sure to check out their arts! A special thanks to the beta baes that helped me clean up this piece <3 <3 <3 And @dollypopup -- I always remember the "who is Maka's mama" conversations we had a few years back!

SUMMARY:

It’s been ten years and Maka is still grappling with the perfect ghost of her imperfect mother. The more she holds to this illusion the more her real life relationships suffer. Will she ever come to terms with the fact that Marika Kimura not only abandoned Spirit but chose to abandon Maka as well? It has always been easier to blame Spirit but as her mama’s silence continues Maka is no longer so sure.

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BEAUX ARTS:

Bellflowerss: TUMBLR   INSTAGRAM   AMINOAPPS 

Blinkfl0yd: TUMBLR

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{All of the above are boundary violations.}⁣

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Having to do things out of necessity doesn’t make it okay.⁣Kids do not have the life experience and emotional ability to handle the adult situations thrown at them.

Kids respond well to a secure and safe environment with adults who help them establish healthy emotional support and appropriate boundaries. ⁣

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When adult and child relationships are reversed, children miss out on experiencing age-appropriate experiences. ⁣

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{Adultlike behaviors rob kids of having a childhood.}⁣

Just because something is normal doesn’t mean that it’s healthy. If you were treated as an adult when you were a child, you could talk to a therapist to work through childhood experiences. Also, you can read some books to help you navigate your experiences.

A few suggestions are listed on the website under resources (bookshop).

🙏🏽 Monday Night Message!~ 🌸

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Survivor's Guilt is the inability to forgive yourself for making it when others did not. It is blaming yourself. It is feeling guilty for having resources and opportunities.

The guilt is not for you or the other person. Sometimes you can help, and sometimes you cannot. Your job is to know where your power lies.