Terf feminists have terrorized me, blue. I can't do this anymore. Why are their takes so horrible, fym feminism doesn't benefit men? Fym trans women shouldn't be allowed in women's spaces? Fym queer ppl in m/f relationships should take their hetero-ness and leave us alone? I can't anymore save me I beg
Yeah itâs all really stupid. You are blocking these people, right?
Honestly it baffles me that theyâre even called âfeministsâ. Isnât feminism supposed to be about equal rights? Whatâs equal about insisting that the people they donât consider women (or the right kind of women) deserve to be oppressed instead? Oh right, itâs because they donât actually care about dismantling the patriarchy or whatever, they just want to cling to the power they already have.
Honestly what we really need is a world where thereâs not really any such thing as âwomenâs spacesâ and âmenâs spacesâ. Unisex toilets are fine so long as thereâs decent fucking locks on the cubicle doors. Same with showers. If the worry is that some men will âtake advantageâ of it then we need to hold men accountable and raise them to not treat womenâs bodies as sex objects. Or bodies in general. This is just âyou shouldnât wear revealing clothes in public because men canât control themselvesâ rhetoric all over again.
As for the whole âno heterosâ thing, thatâs even stupider. Iâll admit, I used to assume that âstraightâ was the opposite of âqueerâ until I saw a post about how plenty of queer people are also straight, and thatâs a me problem. It really goes to show how all of these divides we make between different groups (men and women, straight and queer etc) are really just arbitrary and meaningless. Anyway yeah trans rights.