[ID: The vincian/achillean flag is pictured with a zepeto figure on the left, looking at the viewer and dressed in black and white. There is text on the top and bottom stripes of the flag that read "nonbinary mlm exist" and "respect nonbinary mlm" To the right and on the middle stripe, the nonbinary and male symbols are interlocked. End ID]
In some ways, it's been easier to accept my attraction to men. In other ways, it hasn't. Being nonbinary and not having an alignment to manhood or womanhood has made navigating how I label my attraction difficult to say the least.
Seeing how nonbinary mlm have been treated by gatekeepers certainly added to my uncertainty, not to mention the erasure and denial of nonbinary people like myself who fall under multiple attraction labels. Sapphic and nonbinary mlm? Couldn't possibly be me /s.
It's funny to me now that someone would be upset about a complete stranger being a part of many communities; is it really so scandalous for an individual to have a number of ways to describe themself? If it is, I think the world could use some more shocking discoveries.
Anyways, I'm making this post because I want to be proud and accept myself a little more, and to be very clear in my support to all the nonbinary people out there who are unsure or hesitant in where they're allowed to be when it comes to attraction. Only you can decide where you feel you belong, whether it's in one place, many places, or off on your own.
💙 trumeds/transmeds/truscum and all other gatekeepers are not welcome to interact 💙