#mrsmon

What are five things that make you want to get up in the morning? My family, food, the thought of wasting a day, music, the gym (I’m lame)

What food makes you the happiest when you’re able to eat it? Bacon cheese fries…or pizza…or spicy chicken from the Japanese place by my house

Would you rather spend the day relaxing at the beach or have a thrilling day at an amusement park?

Relaxing day at the beach, because i love to read while tanning 

How would you cheer up a friend that’s feeling down? I would probably try to get their mind of things by either taking them somewhere or watching a movie or doing something fun. 

You’re feeling down; How would you want someone to cheer you up? Just listen to me rant until I get it out of my system. 

What’s your favorite animal and why? I love love love love foxes. I’m not sure why, I just always have. They’re clever and I want to be like them, lol.

What’s your favorite color? I like pastel shades of purple and pink, and also the color grey.

Are you an early bird or a night owl? Night owl for sureee.

Do you prefer the daytime or the nighttime? I prefer the nighttime because I think better and most importantly, write better at night. 

Do you want kids in the future? If so, how many? Yes, two. Preferably a boy and a girl, but I’ll be okay with whatever!

What is a snack you would be caught sneaking at midnight? Cereal.

What is your ultimate goal or aspiration? To be 100% confident in myself and everything that I do. To be the best me that I could possibly be, and to radiate an infectious joy that others feel when they are around me. 

Would you put a friend before yourself if they were in need? How would you help them? Of course! I’m sure it depends on the situation what I would do, but sometimes just lending a shoulder to cry on or a listening ear is the best solution. 

Are you a problem solver or a shoulder to cry on? Mostly a shoulder to cry on. I hate to try and solve other peoples problems because I’m always scared that my advice my cause even more trouble, haha. 

How would you show a friend you care about them? Talk to them often, listen to them, remember the small details about them or something they said, compliment them lots.

List all the hobbies you’re most passionate about. Writing, singing, painting, reading, playing sims (lol), listening to music, and learning any and all things about makeup/skincare!

Name your top songs that are on repeat all day. Mamamoo-Mr. Ambiguous (I swear this is my JAM); Got7-Home Run; Pierce The Veil-Bedless; EXO-Monster; Jay Park-Worldwide; Adele-All I Ask; Tiffany-Talk

List five things you love about your bias. His beautiful, all-teeth smile, his muscular body and tall frame; his singing voice, his endless compassion and determination, and the way one side of his mouth pulls up into a half smile when he’s talking.

What is your favorite TV show? The Walking Dead, Spongebob Squarepants. I don’t watch much tv, lol. 

If you could watch one movie for the rest of your life, what would it be? Burlesque.

Dedicate a song to a friend or lover. To my boyfriend, Sleeping With Sirens-If I’m James Dean, You’re Audrey Hepburn

What would you do with a billion dollars? I would pay off my next two years of college, build my mom the screened-in porch she’s always wanted, take a trip to S. Korea, buy unlimited concert tickets to all the artists I’ve always wanted to see–so many things. 

Are you a committed person or single and ready to mingle? Committed–I’ve been in a relationship for 4 ½ years. 

Do you hang alone or with a group? I spend most of my time with my friends now that it’s summer, but I do enjoy alone time to recharge. 

What would your ultimate vacation would be and where? I’ve never been more interested in Asian culture than now, so either S. Korea or Japan. I would love to do both, since they’re close, and just eat lots of different food and see the sights and indulge myself in the culture of both places. 

If you could do anything for your occupation, what would you do? I would love to move to NYC and work at a publishing house. 

Are you a big city or small city person? Big. City. 

If you see your dear friend being harassed or bullied by someone else, would you: Keep quiet for the sake of your own reputation or Speak up even though it might create a backlash on you? Speak up. If they’re my friend, its my obligation. No questions asked. 

Would we see you dancing in the middle of a large crowd or hanging shyly in the background? Probably in the background…crowds make me anxious. 

What makes you the happiest? Listening to music, or drinking wine. 

What is your favorite season and why? Winter! Not only do I get to wear sweaters but I get to drink hot drinks. And for some reason, I absolutely love the way that a person’s cheeks get pink from cold air, idk. Winter is a beautiful season. 

What is your favorite dessert? Brownies. 

What holiday makes you the happiest? Definitely Christmas.

Who makes you the happiest?

@sleevelessparkjimin – I am truly, ultimately happy to have you in my life. You are my very best friend. Thank you for joining ASA and thank you for hitting me with a dodgeball in the chest because, well, if you hadn’t, I don’t know if we would have ever met. You are so so so funny, and we have the same sense of humor and way of thinking about things. Thanks for listening to me scream on the phone about endless things and screaming right back at me. I love you <3

@mrsmon – Rike. I tag you in things like this pretty frequently, but I will never tire of telling you how much you mean to me. You were one of my first friends on tumblr, and despite our time differences I still managed to talk to you more than I do most people in my family or even my friends.. You’ve listened to me talk about everything and I could never tell you how grateful I am for you. Thanks for being the squadfather, and for being one of my very best friends. I’m sad that we don’t talk as much as we used to, but I’m very grateful for the times that we do. I love you so so so much! 

@risinginfire – Aileen! You’re so cool and nice and I’m so thankful for the day that you decided to message me. You’re such a sweet little flower and love our talks. I’m also very glad you decided to bias Joonie after months of being undecided, lol. Thank you so much for being my friend, you mean the world to me. 

@seokline – *insert s l i c e emjoi* YOU ARE THE FUNNIEST PERSON I’VE EVER MET. Omg, you make me laugh so much in our chats and I am so so so so thankful that I get to call you my friend. Thanks for everything that you do, whether it be tempting me to write a chicken wing spin-off chapter of Exposure or teasing me about my pig-related work uniform. You’re amazing and talented and your scenarios show it. I just…*kisses you* YOU’RE MY FAVE. 

@onceuponabangtan – We haven’t talked in a while but I miss our chats! I’m so lucky to have you to talk to and I miss you lots–come back to me! You’re constantly offering support and advice for my writing and I couldn’t thank you enough. 

@deerguk // @elkfolk – Fawn! I know we just recently started talking but I admired your writing for so long its unreal that I get to talk to you and consider you as a friend! You are my writing inspiration, literally. Thank you for continuing to post your beautiful stories. You are such an amazing, nice, humble person with such awe-inspiring talent and I just asdjkl; ilysm. 

@donewithjeon – Michelle, you’re just super cool. I miss talking to you in the group chat and I hope that one day, yes, we get that resuscitator and fire it back up. Thank you for continuing to be my friend and talk to me even though I was such an ass for so long, haha. I hope your summer is great and that you get to relax and write more beautiful scenarios! 

(I feel like I forgot someone and I’m v sorry if I did)

Tag as many people as you want to show that you care about them. Spread a little kindness to those around you. You may not realize but you could be making someone else’s day by a single compliment or even just a simple “hello.” When you tag someone, list something you love about them and make their day/night.

Even if you’re already tagged by someone, you can definitely retag them and show a little more love.

Love is all around you.

“The truest greatness lies in being kind and the truest wisdom in a happy mind.” -Ella Wheeler Wilcox

“Choose being kind over being right and you’ll be right every time.” -Richard Carlson

“We rise by lifting others.” -Robert Ingersoll

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting their own battle.”

“Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” -Mark Twain