#mrhk

Time sensitive! 2/3. As far as the kid thing. Ik there are options: surrogacy (for some blessed enough who do have this disorder get to use their DNA some don’t have that option tho…) and obviously Adoption/Foster which I had always envisioned my self doing anyway…just with some biological kids along side them. Ik it’s more of a cross that bridge item but I obviously do worry about this. I’m really shy about asking health things idky but I am. -Liz97

Time sensitive!3/3(final I promise sorry)I want to talk to my mom abt this and about seeking medical for it. But I’ve personally made periods/reproductive stuff such a “la la la” don’t talk about it subject while growing up that I’m not sure how to approach it. Nor am I sure I’m ready to. I want to know if I have this disorder and I don’t you know? I’m sure that sounds dumb but I’m so nervous about what I’m fairly sure ik to be true…please tag: Periods (for others)&tag: Liz97 . Thank you -Liz97

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Hi there!

First, I want you to know that you do not sound dumb, it’s perfectly normal to have mixed feelings in situations, especially when the results could be of great significance. 

I think that while it’s great that you’ve made sure that you’ve learnt about MRHK and Müllerian agenesis, and considered possible consequences, I wouldn’t worry too much about it until you can be certain. I know that it’s difficult, but you’ll save yourself a lot of weight on your shoulders.

It’s completely normal to feel uncomfortable and nervous when going to/speaking to doctors. The focus of the topic is always focused on you, your body and your health, which can feel quite intrusive or embarrassing - and that’s completely understandable. You are free to feel that way, but know that doctors are there for you. They are there to make sure that you’re healthy and happy and living the best way that you can. 

Although you said that you think you’ve made periods “la la la” topics with your mum, you should know that she is always there for you and will always be willing to talk to you about anything that you are worried about, or thinking of. I completely understand how you feel, sometimes these kinds of things can feel quite taboo topics to speak of, but for the greater good, they benefit you a lot. Try and build up as much confidence as you can to speak to your mother. If what you think is true, it’s vital for your health for you to know for a fact, and for your mum to know too. You are her daughter after all. 

Going to get tested for MRHK and Müllerian agenesis seems like the best thing that you can do to ensure that you are doing okay, and having your mother by your side may drop some more of that weight off your shoulders. That way, you and your mum can approach this together, no matter the result. 

If you do have MRHK orMüllerian agenesis, your doctor should be able to help advise you and your mum on any questions you may have and any further steps you may need to take. When the time comes, you’ll be able to discuss the concerns you have about having children. Please don’t worry yourself sick about something that isn’t completely certain. It’s good that you are concerned and aware of  your body. Please feel free to come back to us, we are always happy to help.

I hope I’ve helped, good luck in the new year! All the love, 

Hey love! We have your asks in the box! You signed off with “Liz97″ so once it’s been answered it’ll be tagged under it and depending on who’s answering the ask they may tag it under “MRHK” so you can find it since that’s what you put in your ask!