mostdontknowit replied to your post: Asks male friend to be part of my bridal party...
Iāve seen male maids for straight weddings. Like a brother or childhood friend.
In this case, heās not a childhood friend...Iād probably have better ammo if he was family or someone I had known since childhood. This is a friend I met twelve years ago. A long time, sure, but Iām secretly old and time has no value.
I still want to have him in my bridal party. I mean...neither my fiance or I are religious [unless you count Church of Todd in which my god is a very polite Asian man...who I hope will come to the wedding] so I could always offer to pay for my friend to become ordained so he can perform the wedding since I donāt currently have anyone in mind for that and itās not like I donāt have other female friends...but like I asked him years ago and his only condition was he didnāt want to wear a dress.
Didnāt have a boyfriend at the time either. Just told him itād be a thing some day and he didnāt even question it. Just said no dress.








