you know what really sucks is if it didnt start with him throwing sexually charged praise at fucker who is basically the definition of a psychopath from everything i have heard about him  maybe i wouldnt have a problem with it  but yes  i am going to judge you when you keep a scoreboard for your friends  or when you tear their limbs off  or when you decapitate them  i dont care if its “consensual” theres no such thing as consensual self harm because that means youre not in a space where you can think rationally  i dont judge people for the vast array of choices they can make  i mean yes i have triggers and i completely own responsibility for that  but im?? somehow a judgmental person because im not okay with people doing things that bring harm to others??  of course a scoreboard is a much milder form of harm but its still harm  when did me being a pacifist and favoring peace mean that i have to excuse people doing harm onto each other and that i have to not judge it  isnt that the opposite of what pursuing and valuing peace would be  why does my appreciation of friendliness and coexistence mean that i cant be upset when i see people hurting each other those are literally not mutually exclusive at all