#moonbian

back in 2016, 16 yr old me was a nightmare. I was a pretty popular tumblr blog. had a lot of friends, mutuals, and followers, roughly like 5,000. but I was a dumbass racist bitch who hid behind my self-dxd autism (which I found out I dont even have) whenever someone called me out on my bullshit. I called a wlwoc who told me to shut the fuck up about racial issues that didn’t affect me a TERF for not knowing my pronouns. then I told everyone to report her for harrassment. that was probably the ugliest thing ive ever done, and tbh? im probably gonna regret it till the day I die. 

the only reason im not gonna personally try to make amends with that person is she made triggered jokes @ me & other ppl when we talked abt our trauma and accused me of sexually assaulting my ex gf when the opposite is what actually happened. my ex raped me, but nobody took my pain seriously bc a lot of ugly radfems lie abt trans women raping them. I literally got told that bc shes a wlwoc and a trans woman, shes physically incapable of sexually assaulting a white AFAB person like me. this pushed me deeper into my racism and transmisogyny until I got a wake up call when one of my trans friends of color told me they would ditch me if I didnt stop having a victim complex. 

I narrowly avoided becoming a radfem, and had to cut ties with a lot of ex friends who ended up being super popular TERF blogs. 3 years later, im back on tumblr to spread positivity instead of being a bitch and call out ppl who act like I did when I was a stuck up snobby racist brat. I fully acknowledge my white privilege, understand that being jewish has no impact on my race whatsoever bc judaism is a religion and not a race, and understand now that aces are not and never will be inherently lgbt. 

Sun and Moon Lesbian are aesthetic descriptors lesbians can choose for themselves. There’s no concrete definition of them, it’s more like what reminds you most of yourself or describes you best, or you find most aesthetically pleasing.

I’ve also heard they're inspired by the space alignments for nb, but with a focus on lesbians and not necessarily limited to just nb lesbians. Example, sun lesbian is either a butch lesbian or a solarian nb lesbian. Moon lesbian could be either a femme lesbian or a lunarian nb lesbian. It's meant to allow for aligned for lesbian without feeling like needing to strictly conform to the ideas of butch or femme.

Sun Lesbian:

[Image: Flag with 7 stripes: Pinkish-red, redorange, orange, off-white, yellow-orange, light-ish brick red, brick red].

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Note: The sun lesbian flag looks a lot like the fall lesbian flag [Link], nonbinary girl [Link], and to a lesser extent, Jupitergender [Link]. I know the Jupitergender and Nonbinary girl flags have existed longer so if someone could work on a more distinct alternate of this that’d be great! 

Moon Lesbian:

[Image: Flag with 7 stripes: Dark purple, purple, medium lavender, off-white, light pinkish-purple, muted pastel pink, dark pink].

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Designed by: @moonbian 

Color meanings: Based on the original 7-striped lesbian flag with the colors changed to match the aesthetics of the sun and moon.

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