I just wanted to share how happy I was yesterday to meet my college friends after a long time and finally got a chance to share my plans in life in the future. While being with them again after a quite couple of years. having a good conversation about what’s going on each one of us. The updates that everyone got astonished because I am finally moving forward to the dream that I’ve been waiting for since then. They’re happy to see me pursuing my goals in life after I decided to quit my job and prepare myself for another journey that I’ve long for so long that they never imagine from me.
Chatting and laughing again, paying attention to each other was overwhelming hearing those voices was unexplainable, the way we teased each other, the way how we react to something in unison. Everything was amazing, those epic moments and how we shared something embarrassing, yet we don’t judge, we just laugh it like nothing happens. The genuine cares you received from them; how proud they are for me about my decisions. I’m delighted about their reactions and supports that I got, and they also wanted to go with me. We missed each other’s company, the way we focus on each other without using our phones instead we just enjoying our time together.
Next meeting with another set of friends, the friendship that I’ve never imagine after one of my friends introduced them with me on our beach trips. Then eventually those beach trips, followed another trip like, going to some cafe shops, and also out of town trips without our common friend just us. T’was, nice because they really want me to be part of them. They never forget me to invite some of their get to go plans most specially out of towns. We even had a group chat, they even invited me to come to their house. We just click, have the same energy and same opinions about something. No hatred or awkwardness to each other. So glad that they really like my vibe every time that I’m with them. They treated me like we’ve known for so long no toxicity all at. How vulgar they are to talk about something that bothers them to our one common friend.
Actually, they don’t want her anymore to be their friends because on how they’re so disappointed on the incidents she acted that time, she has done too much that’s unforgiveable to them. They shared everything how they felt from the start, we don’t back fight our friend but she’s too much from us. We have the same scenarios, that makes us anxious those words that she have said to us, those below the belt words coz she only cared about herself. As long as she can vent everything what’s inside of her mind without even thinking how harsh she was to us. She doesn’t treat us like her friends, she doesn’t value those people who tries to understand her attitude. We never expected that she’s like that, she only cares herself not open to any suggestions. Like she’s the boss that you need to agree and follows what she wants, if you don’t, she’ll freak out. Everyone thinks that she doesn’t know the word FRIEND, then true meaning of it because she treated us like just someone, she knows only nothing more nothing less.
You know what I do appreciate someone who set aside their phones while having a good time with someone in general. The way they focus only their time while being with you.
