#mod twogami

I see and understand your struggle, Anonymous; I must also congratulate myself with you as coming here to share your issues was a brave thing to do, along with your ability to excel in most if not all activities almost the same way as I.. Impressive.

I understand you might fear that one day your ability to be good at almost everything without putting in much effort will betray you, but I must dismiss that thought and tell you that if you are as good as you claim to be, you will continue to be that way.

… wosh him

Hello, Anonymous. Thank you for coming to us in a time of struggle, you are very brave for doing so.

I understand and unfortunately relate to your issue as I am often labeled as fat, but I pay no mind to such comments because what should matter the most is your happiness and well-being. Eating a proper amount of food and having a diet that suits your body best is crucial to be well in your body.

But I am guessing you fear your parent's disapproval far too much to focus on appreciating the way you look.. So know this; I believe, firmly at that, that you are able to overcome this and learn to love yourself the way you are despite the harsh comments you might hear from others. You are what you are and, if you wish, you are able to change your looks to your liking, so use that opportunity to become who you want to be; Not because people ask you to change but because you want to feel at ease in your body, and if you let me, I will guide you down the path of self-love, Anonymous, so do not lose hope.

For a parental figure to make negative comments about your weight...that’s a great despair that even I can relate to. Fat, stupid, ugly...those are me in a nutshell. But I will not say the same for you Anon, you’re a wonderful person who deserves to feel comfortable with your body. However, it’s as Twogami said, you should only change the way you look if that’s what you’d like, not for anyone else’s approval or because they happen to dislike the way you look.

It’s unfair how your parents would find any reason to belittle you and make you feel bad about your weight, regardless what it is. If they wanted you to change that, they should approach you in a more positive light instead of calling you names that affect your mindset and mentality.

My suggestion is to ignore those words and think of the positives you like about yourself. No matter what weight you are, you’re a unique person and what’s important is that you love yourself. 

Oh, um, a kiss. I-I’m not used to...receiving this kind of request yet. A kiss on the cheek, does that work for you? I hope it does.

Hnng! That’s pretty shitty to shame someone for their body shape! LIKE REALLY DAMN SHITTY! Nobody should judge others for their race, shape, color or beliefs. It isn’t worth two shits if someone is overweight or underweight. And I take third to what Mukuro and Twogami say, change yourself if you only feel like doing so, the poor judgement of your parents shouldn’t decide who you are or how you are! It would shame me as a man if I were to belittle anyone of a body that isn’t necessarily ideal to society. 

LISTEN WELL! YOU BE THE BEST PERSON YOU CAN BE! YOU DECIDE WHAT’S RIGHT OR WRONG FOR YOU, NOT YOUR PARENTS, NOT ANYBODY ELSE! YOU GOT THAT! IT’S TOTAL BULLSHIT FOR PEOPLE TO SAY YOUR BODY IS SHITTY! OR FAT OR WHATEVER!!!! THIS IS A JUDGEMENT-FREE ZONE!!!!

Aw man! Nightmares are the worst. I once had this dream where humans were replaced with ducks and no one thought this was weird but me. It was a lot more terrifying than it sounds, trust me. Anyways I’m totally distracted.

So I’m obviously not a doctor, but dreams are supposed to be your brain processing stuff or whatevs, and therefore it shouldn’t be able to hurt you. Or you could be a psychic! Anyways psychic or not, stuff doesn’t happen twice. I’m sure the Dream was just triggered by memories or something. You’re gonna be perfectly ok. Nothing’s gonna happen.

Dreams can be really terrible! I’m sorry you had to go through that. Your worries must feel really scary, but don’t worry. I know that nothing is going to happen. It’s just a bad dream.

I know it feels scary, but it can’t hurt you. Try to take some time to try and calm down. It’ll be just fine, trust me!!

I see you are one of those Anonymous who battle with nightmares.. I can sympathize with you, truly; But I must say.. Dreams are often a projection fabricated by your subconscious which are supposed to be its poorly put together way of communicating with you; Most of the times, bad dreams are simply a reflection of your deepest fears, or stressful happenings that seem to cling at the very back of your mind.

I must admit, I have had my fair share of bad dreams, but I was able to overcome them eventually by facing my fears, and if you, Anonymous, will allow me to guide you through the process, I will lead you out of the dark tunnel that is a mere nightmare.

But.. Given the circumstances, I suppose I shall be magnanimous and give you as many tips as I can here; You see, Anonymous, in order to defeat a bad dream, you must first mentally prepare yourself for it so that you will be ready for impact. You will then have to go through it and keep your cool, they say fear makes the wolf look bigger, so bear that in mind for me. Lastly, I strongly suggest you evaluate your dream once you are awake, and in order to properly do so, you should write it down in a notebook so that you can calmly look it over afterwards and determine what was the cause of it to then take action and solve the issue at the very core.

A hug, huh? Fine. I shall try for you this one time, Anonymous, but don't get too used to this as I, myself, am not accustomed to such.. Interactions, but I suppose it can't be that bad if it's you, Anonymous.

In the matter of your issue, I strongly suggest you find ways to learn to love your voice for what it is as you were blessed with such a beautiful sound. To try and do that, you can attempt to get used to the sound of your own voice by listening to yourself speak over a recording or simply letting yourself speak more often, and with time, you might grow to enjoy the sound of it.

If you are not comfortable at all with your voice you can always train your vocal cords to change the way your voice sounds. Vocal cords can be trained as any other muscle and strengthened as time goes by, but I am no doctor, so I suggest you do some research and see if you are able to find an option that might suit you.