Dec 14, 2021
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I've been asking peoples opinion on rather or not I could be greyaro and well I feel like this blog is also safe for that (if I do feel like if I'm arospec I fall under romance favorable, romo aro, etc). I like the idea of Roma and kind of obsessed with it, but... I noticed I never had crushes frequently or lately? At least I fell like I do with the limited experience I had.
I had a strong crush as a kid, but now I look back at it I just feel creepy about it even tho most "allos" felt that way at least once.
I had crush much later in high school, but it's just felt overwhelming and I felt disconnected in a way (almost repulsed)
Now-ish I did have crush on my a friend, but it's dubious? It's strong on the aesthetic side, but little romantic and It's not... Something I'd pursue?
I find it easier to imagine myself in a romance with a fictional character, but real life? I think I rarely do? I don't nesscarily find myself seeking a relationship even though I wouldn't mind if I actually did at some point. I don't see myself having crushes and if I did identify a romantic attraction, I end up feeling... Overwhelmed and not wanting it. Like somebody randomly poke me and it took a while for me to realize it and I feel really uncomfy and it's kind of painful?
Idk. I've been questioning for a long time.
Those do sound like grayro experiences. If your attraction fades after you realise it, frayromantic might resonate with you? Does anyone else have any advice?
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Question. I know it takes a while for you to make the confessions, then it takes time for it to come through the queue. About how long does it take, though? Are we talking weeks? A month? Longer?
It takes quite a while because I queue for 1 a day so that there’s almost always confessions, and there’s over 100 confessions in the inbox, so it may take months. Sorry about that, but works a little hectic so I’m just trying to make time for at a confession a day-ish! -mod Thomas
Hey, sorry to bother you about this specifically but how do you know if you're aro? I cannot tell if it's a "phase" due to a bad fallout with an ex from two years ago that has me hating anything with romance still or actually something. I'm in a qpr and I'm taking this question to you specifically due to the fact that I don't think I can distinguish romantic attraction from platonic attraction. I've only ever dated that ex so the lack of actual experience doesn't help. Apologies once again and have a nice day!
You don’t have to apologize, this is what we’re here for! I’ve been a bit busy the past week, which is why I havent gotten to this ask until now. I would say that if you feel like a label fits you, use it! If it doesn’t turn out to be correct, who’s going to care? It doesn’t hurt anyone.
You might like the terms platoniromantic, or if you’re neurodivergent nebularomantic, which is when you cant distinguish between platonic and romantic attraction. Erasromantic is when someone is alloromanti, but it disappears for some reason, possibly due to bad experiences, and caedromantic is similar, but it is explicitly due to trauma.
Hope this helps!
--mod thomas