#mitchell kadar

HELLO YES I AM HERE FOR TRANS NICO WITH MITCHELL PREPARE FOR FRIENDSHIP HISTORY HEADCANON RANT

Tbh Mitchell has a lot of gender-related stuff he’s been unlearning from his brothers. He was always gender-nonconforming, and his family decided that was wrong. Luckily, he was able to unlearn most of that stuff when he came to CHB, but it’s still a working process and he’s taking baby steps all the time.

I’m assuming that Nico’s been passing for this long, but has started puberty and it SUCKS and it is getting harder and harder to hide. 

This actually makes it harder for Nico and Mitchell to bond. Because I see their relationship starting out with fashion, and while Nico would love to have help looking better as a man, he’s too scared to let Mitchell close enough to really help him. Mitchell would sense that something was up pretty quickly — possibly as soon as their first meeting. But Mitchell wouldn’t know any details — just the emotions associated with them. Mitchell prods a couple of times, but when Nico keeps deflecting him he’ll stop.

It’s at this point that they’re most at risk of not developing a friendship, because Mitchell requires a lot of emotional openness and honesty. And that isn’t something that Nico’s going to give up any time soon to someone he knows so little.

I see it being a hunch. Mitchell’s waiting for Nico to finish changing, and Mitchell’s just sitting and thinking and then when Nico comes out he’s like, “You know, when I was younger, I really wanted to be a Disney Princess. Actually, I wanted to be Mulan, but one of the official princesses would have been cool too.”

And they start talking about it and then the conversation gradually moves toward gender in general and gender roles and how crap they are and Nico talks a little bit about what it was like in the forties.

Nico doesn’t come out to Mitchell then, but he does end up working toward it a lot faster after that, and Mitchell is horrified to learn that Nico’s been binding with ace bandages and he’s like “No no no that is SUPER UNHEALTHY let me measure you and we’ll make you one that fits and actually lets you breathe.” and “I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU SAVED THE WORLD IN THESE THINGS NO WONDER YOU WERE SO CLOSE TO DEATH”

Nico loves his new binder and Mitchell helps him get a haircut and with both of those in place it starts to become a whole lot easier for Nico to be confident while shopping for his clothes and while Nico’s able to present more masculine, he’s also supporting Mitchell who’s branching out to be more feminine and together they’re like the best dressed boys in all of camp.

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Aww thank you so much! ;u; I love Mitchell and Mike Kahale a lot.

Awww thank you so much, Anon! Mitchell is near and dear to my heart and it means the world to me when people like you tell me that you love him too. /o/

There were many things that Michelle Kadar couldn't do, but she'd be damned before she let anyone else decide what those were for her.

For instance, volleyball is a lot more challenging when her left arm ends just below her elbow. But it wasn't impossible for her to play. In fact, she was quite good at it. All she needed was extra practice hours and a little patience from her teammates.

The same could be said of sign language.

HOW APPROPRIATE YOU ASK ABOUT MITCHELL KADAR DURING ASEXUALITY AWARENESS WEEK LET ME SHARE SOME ACE HEADCANONS ABOUT APHRODITE CABIN’S OWN MITCHELL:

He found out about asexuality on his way home from getting his second tattoo - a nearby school was having a pride awareness week and realized the asexuality panels described him to a T

He took as many brochures as possible and excitedly showed Lacy as soon as he got back to camp

It wasn’t long after that Mitchell realized?? There was no MOGII support at their GREEK camp?? What the heck is this THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE

So he gathers some other MOGII-minded campers and tries to get support from the rest of camp to start a group and he does it in an “ASEXUALITY EXISTS” shirt

I feel like I’ve discussed these all before tho hmm

Mitchell is a panromantic asexual who is sex-neutral

He’s willing to have sex with his partner but only if his partner is enthusiastic about it (Mitchell is in it 100% for the emotional experience that comes along with sex - which is only amplified by his empathy powers)

But really he’d rather just cuddle and talk about X-Men or Battlestar Galatica

Which is usually what he does tbh

It’s amazing how much time there is for emotionally satisfying activities when sex is a low-to-nonexistant priority 

He and Nico go on not-dates where they shop for clothes and talk for five hours ‘cause they only do it once or twice a month

(it’s totally a date don’t listen to them)

Mitchell is very vocal about his asexuality because he doesn’t want people to feel like they’re all alone ever again