Apr 23, 2024
Me: “idk I feel like sex is kind of mostly a performance to get the other person off…I don’t usually enjoy it that much”
Me: “Oh shit I really am on the ace spectrum aren’t i…”
#goblinposts#like it’s not always 100% true#but I was reflecting and talking to my sis about it bc we was talking about MBTI Meyer Briggs#and then like sensing goes versus intuitive#and intuitives not being at good at physical in the world stuff#and then like yeah I related that to my past sex life stuff#but now I’m wondering is it the personality type thing or part my being on the ace spectrum thing#bc sex for me is less about enjoying the experience#but more of the stress of performance to make sure the other person is enjoying themselves and like yeah#but like I do enjoy to some extent so that’s not really ace idk#confusion#I’m single and celibate af rn so that’s an issue for much later me of ever again me to figure out#ace#acespec#lgbtqia#Meyer Briggs#mbti types
