There are some things you forget about guys when you've only dated off & on for short periods of time...for years. Like what big babies they can be. For example: we plan a date and I make my arrangements. I'm fab and ready to go. Let me rewind a bit. Through out the day, mr wonderful says he needs to find some meds because he may have caught a cold. That's fine, take some DayQuil I say. So he gets some cough drops for his developing congestion (is that DayQuil? how does that even make sense?). Then he tries again & the pharmacy is too far, but a coworker gave him something. Ok, great. Fast forward to when I'm ready. I forgot my phone, do I double back for it. Mr wonderful has texted me. Awesome! He should be telling me where we'll meet right? Right? NOPE Hunny I know you'll be mad, but I have to reschedule. I don't feel so good, is what it says. WHAT?! Excuse me? She who has to run around town like a chicken with her head cut off to get ready & make arrangements for a night out because I'm a single mom (aka Superwoman) is I!! His ass didn't know he didn't feel well 2 hrs ago? You know before I was completely fab & ready? I'm congested and I dont want to go out and be all stuffy, he says. Did I mention I was already dressed & glammed up?did I mention I already dropped off the kid? Suck it up you big baby, it's just a cold!!! A stuffy nose! Of course I didn't say that to him. He's in big baby mode. It's all about the big baby now. I do the disappointed sigh. The ok I understand you don't feel well crap. So now he owes me BIG TIME! Everything in me wanted to spaz OUT! Should I have? Should I have been completely dramatic & devastated...you know since my birthday is coming up? LOL
