#menaretrash

Not one to ever post #personal shit, but what is with guys who say they'll text you back in 30 minutes and then 28hrs go by? Thought I liked this guy.

Tbh I believe most men date only to prove themselves to other men that they are manly enough to “own” a woman and not because they want love. I don’t believe men genuinely care for their female partners as individuals. I first formed this belief after noticing those memes about women vs men post breakup. It’s only after time goes by do men start to “mourn” when a relationship ends. It’s not because they realize they had feelings it’s because that woman is no longer available to provide emotional support or any type of labor for them and that’s what they miss. So now he has no therapist. I think this way for many reasons: how men treat women in relationships, how men talk about women, how they see sex with women. Few men genuinely care about their female partners and even the ones I see do tend to slip up when they are in the company of men for too long. Men date for clout and to be serviced: sexually, emotionally, physically (house work) and sometimes financial support.

why do men have to share their lives with you, every traumatic event in their life and then ask you to back off when you want to talk. they took your time, asked you to listen, got you attached, got you hoping that when the time was right, they'd listen to you. but two days later, they no longer need you. you were a one night trauma relief and now you're a nobody. and suddenly when you try to address it, you're acting clingy and needy and you've lost some ego battle that you weren't aware you were fighting.