I, ‘23F’ have an issue with my girlfriend, ‘22F’ and my boy best friend, ‘24M’.
So I, 23F have a girlfriend who is 22F. My boy best friend (24M) has a girlfriend (22F). I think I’m falling for my boy best friend. He said if him and his girlfriend break up AND me and my girlfriend break up, then he would definitely get with me. And I told him I would as well in these circumstances. I’ve already been thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend since I never get to talk to her except a good morning text once or twice a week. What is the most logical choice in this situation, talking through it with the two, staying silent, or leaving her?
Your choice is never between "Relationship A" and "Relationship B". It's always between your relationship and being single. You don't respect your girlfriend and you're not happy in the relationship, so be single. Your girlfriend deserves better.
