People are having a problem with the way that Mary is being portrayed.Â
I think I know why.Â
Essentially we all most of the fandom hold Mary Winchester up the same way Dean does did.Â
So the way that she is being written is really messing with us the same way that it is messing with Dean.
I think that this is intentional.Â
She isn’t supposed to be there. She is supposed to be dead. Which was mirrored with tonight’s episode with Gavin being somewhere he wasn’t supposed to be. Gavin made the decision to go back where he was supposed to be. Dean watched as he became a spirit and finally he and his love passed on to where they belong.Â
Dean is also watching as his mother makes decisions that even Dean “makes all the bad decisions in the name of saving Sammy the greater good” Winchester even recognizes as terrible.Â
This is going to play into the season some how I’m sure. Dean wants his mother around, but he also just discovered that she is betraying them. She is working with the people that tried to kill Dean, the people that tortured Sammy. Now knowing Dean, the trying to kill him part can be overlooked, but those people tortured Sammy. That is unforgivable on every level possible in Dean’s eyes.Â
In my opinion Dean, from this point on, will not feel like he can ever trust his mother. She is supposed to love and protect them, protect Sammy, and she has betrayed that trust.Â
Mary, you may be able to buy Dean’s forgiveness with beer and burgers when he thinks you are just away hunting or healing, but Dean protecting his Sammy is a completely different ball park, one where he won’t even forgive the very person that birthed the both of them.
In 12x06 “Celebrating the Life of Asa Fox” when he made that deal with Billie and was shoved through the door, the first words out of his mouth were asking about the welfare of Sam, an experienced hunter who at this point has more time hunting than you, who has fought monsters alongside Dean his whole life, who Dean damn well knows can handle his own, but still, asked after Sam. Not his mother.Â
So the fact that you are working with the BMoL after what they did to Sam, is a betrayal that is going to take a long time to get past, if he ever does.Â
This will eventually lead to a Winchester Death™ I’m sure. I am assuming that it will be a brother, probably Sam. Then to redeem herself to Dean, Mary will bargain to take Sam’s place. She will reason that she wasn’t supposed to be there anyway, that not only will this get Sam back to Dean where he belongs, but she will go back to where she belongs.Â
I might be wrong. But I will be interested in seeing if I am.