#mars7h

Personal context: I’m an 7H Aries Mars.

Yall, when I say this was exactly my first relationship with a man. I dated a shy guy, but once he got with me, he literally told me “Nobody wanted me when I was single and then I date you and suddenly everybody wants a piece of me”. I had women that came out of NOWHERE (the sewers I presume) hate me just because they wanted him. Unfortunately for me, he was an attention whore and was described exactly as the second tweet was warns against.

It was one of my most painful experiences I have yet to live through. I was torn up that someone I was in love with, was so swayed by the attention of just anyone (I mean any old ugly thing Chile). I have no idea why he would hand out his contact information to just anyone, or what his intentions were. It’s honestly hurtful to even think of his reasons why. I just know it was horrible to experience and it changed me fundamentally in a way I’m still recovering from.

The love games that you endure with a man like this is horrible. People will OPENLY compete with you over YOUR OWN MAN. Like is that not crazy? I almost got into a fist fight with three girls who chose to disrespect me, in front of him, in order to show some sort of dominance for their ugly friend who had a crush on him. That was when I had enough. That’s when I realized no man that I ever love and loves me would ever put me in a situation where I have to put my hands on someone over him. For a Pisces, loyalty is honestly everything.

I will never involve myself with a man as secretly desperate for attention as him. My next man needs to have INTEGRITY and not be two faced.

It is VERY, VERY important that where you are, you use your friendliness and kindness to build relationships with others.

With mars in your 7th house, people are going to ATTACK YOU and LIE ON YOU and try to HARM you for no reason.

Your strength, your WEAPON, relies on ALLYSHIP. People who are your ALLIES, will DEFEND YOU!

It is extremely important that you make friends. It’s your most important defense on an attack to your reputation, career or wellbeing.

Like how detectives pay attention to their setting for clues. When something so unassuming still somehow catches ur attention (and/or makes u feel nervous), these are CLUES for you. The full message will be revealed later on.

I’ll give u a personal example: there was this girl who I was frenemies with. She thought she was smarter than me and would make fun of my misuse of words (I’m a Pisces Mercury, communicating my thoughts can confuse non-intuitive ppl) The committee we were on was throwing a party and ppl were told to send me their money to pay for drinks and other shit at the party. So one day I’m bored and just scrolling through my Venmo. I typically don’t look through transactions I get or shit but this night I was curious.. I see someone who is my frenemies roommate (never met this girl but seen her around) send me their money with a message attached and it’s confused me until I connected the dots and realize it’s shade and she’s making fun of something I’ve said to the chick I’m frenemies with. I’m an Aries Mars so u already know I confronted both of them and the ensuing conflict revealed my hidden enemies to me. Crazy right?

Had I not checked app I never go on and taken a mental note, I would’ve never received a clue I had several girls who didn’t like me behind my back.

My roommates boyfriend decided to do something romantic for V day for her and he asked me to distract her and help him set up an indoor camping date. I didn’t feel like doing that shit but I said whatever. We’re texting back in forth, meeting secretly so I can give him my keys and distract her while he’s in our apartment.

When she discovers what he did, one of the first things she says is I wish my boyfriend did something like that for me.

????? Why would you say that? That’s weird…

You can’t tell me Mars in the 7th doesn’t bring weirdosssss I’m sorry. Competition with others when you never asked to have one? On top of being nice to mfs and they just spit in ur face.

Omg my first Astro question🤭🤭

Well, Mars, Pluto and Lilith are planets with intense energy. They have a purpose to push, provoke, and stoke. So someone with these kind of placements is intense and intimidating without meaning to be. They just naturally are provocative. So when they come across insecure people, they intimidate them. This could be sexually, emotionally or physically.

Pluto is a powerful planet. This planet can represent transformation, depth and sexual magnetism. It is an intense energy that cannot be muted. So when the native has this in their 1st or touching their ascendant, they attract experiences or people that are attracted to their magnetism. The native is probably very alluring and attractive. Like when you look at some ppl and they just ooze sex appeal, the type that stirs your groin and makes your belly flip when they stare at you. So they attract people who are enchanted by their magnetism, but Pluto is also a planet of control, secrets, revenge. Therefore sometimes the native attracts people who seek to possess them and control them or hate them because of their effect on others. It seems as though its karmic as our ascendant is our purpose on this earth. It may have been inherited to transpire situations where you break or grow.

Mars rules war, and competition. In the 7th house, this is their relationships with other people that are 1 on 1. Mars is fierce and intense. People are intimidated by your assertive approach to your relationships. People see you as competition. It could be because of any reason really, your look, your wits, the way you work. Like ANYTHING. The wrong people will just see you as a threat. It’s your karma because through confrontation, you learn more about your voice and your wants in a relationship. I have this placement. Many of the people I came in conflict with, I never wanted to argue or fight but they were running right over me. Through multiple conflicts, you just get used to demanding your respect and voicing your feelings. The planet here is teaching you sometimes you need war for peace. Love-wise the native should keep their relationship private because people see you as competition will see your lover as the trophy they need to prove they are above you. Embracing the planet will make you stronger and powerful even tho it can be painful and hurtful. Weak people are not your cup of tea.

Finally, Lilith is the outcast. She is the outspoken controversial one that goes against the status quo. She rocks the boat, she ruffles feathers and she is the forbidden. A native having Lilith on their ascendant usually means the native is hot. They ooze a tempting type of sexual appeal. A good example of the forbidden sex appeal I’m talking about is if you imagine what people think of strippers. It’s a controversial job to have and people misunderstand it but it evokes primal and intoxicating feelings in folks. You can act like they’re beneath you but if you watched one dance, your loins would stir. Your look, your demeanor, how you come across to others evokes primal emotions in people that they cannot understand so therefore they seek to destroy it. It’s a different type of intimidation. People either want to fuck you or hate you. People misunderstand you and instead of getting to know you, they want to oust you. That’s why Lilith in the ascendant for women esp causes issues with other ladies. You stir feelings of jealousy and intimidation through your appeal.

I think it’s a good question to wonder if positive placements ease these placements. I think the aspects matter here. With Lilith and Pluto, no matter the aspect, you will face the experiences but positive aspect represents your ease navigating it. For example, with squares and oppositions, the native may go against the grain instead of embracing the energy. They will create inner tension or a tricky polarity so you can grow through challenges. Trines and conjunctions is flowing energy, it is your strength. You use it to your advantage vs being a victim to it lol.