Lysander headcanons with a pregnant Candy and later on with their kids? Donāt know, just live the idea of having a family with my man šš
Lysander with pregnant Candy
Lysander is such a caring and considerate father-to-be. Heās always putting your needs before his, and is constantly wondering what he can do to make things easier on you and your body.Ā
I feel like in the first 0-3 months, he wouldnāt mind you working on the farm with him, in fact he would encourage it because the exercise is good for you and in turn good for baby! But when you finally start getting a bump, he really doesnāt want you straining yourself. Itās not that he wants to control you, but farm work is a lot! Lots of lifting, pulling, pushing. It could be too much for you so he only lets you take care of the easy stuff, like picking the apples, feeding the animals, etc.
Honestly itās a bit worrisome for you because you wonder if heās getting enough sleep, if heās working too hard. He lets you sleep in as long as you need to because for some reason I feel like his kid would cause you a lottt of fatigue during your pregnancy. He shoulders a lot of the work himself, which is really nothing because he was doing it himself before you moved in.
Always there for you during your mood swings, and knows exactly what you need to feel better. āDo you want me to bring you your favorite blanket? And I can make you some hot cocoa.. Do you want your mug with the kittens or the one with the bunny?ā I feel like most husbands would be exasperated after a while but the manās patience is endless. And heās also eternally grateful to you for willingly carrying his children, so in his eyes being patient is the least he can do.
With his kids
When his kid is born, heās obviously there the entire time for the delivery. I feel like he would probably hire people to work on the farm for him while heās gone because he doesnāt want to miss a single moment during labor and delivery. He would also probably hire someone to help him out a few times during the week so that way heās able to give you and his newborn his full attention as much as he can.Ā
Holding his kid for the first time is the happiest heās ever been next to marrying you. He already knew he was in love with his baby but physically seeing them, holding them, kissing their sweet little baby cheeks, itās something he never could have imagined. I think he would be in absolute awe, and he would also be thanking you as well. Heād brush your hair out of your face, wipe the sweat off if need be and kiss you sweetly on the lips, āThank you, my love. This is the greatest gift youāve given me, sheās perfect. Youāre perfect.ā
And yes, I say she because I 1000% headcanon Lysander to be a girl dad, I think most of the fandom does. Heās so soft with her too. Not that he was ever an aggressive man but god the way that heās so gentle with her. If the baby isnāt with you, you can find her cradled in her fatherās arms, him whispering to her how much he adores her, probably even softly singing to her. Heās huge on skin to skin contact so heās always shirtless nowadays lol.Ā
When the baby is a bit older, whenever sheās old enough to start actually comprehending the world around her heās constantly teaching her new things. Words, numbers, animals, and he speaks to her as if sheās a full grown adult sometimes. Itās so funny.
I feel like Lysander would absolutely get matching clothing with his kid. You bet your behind theyāve got a matching color palette. Heās wearing a green cravat, sheās wearing green hair bows. That sorta thing. He also has immaculate fashion sense for his child, so unless you want your kid ruining all of their nice clothes do not let him dress the kid. āLysander weāre going to the park, why is she wearing the 200 dollar dress my aunt bought for her??ā I mean really⦠have you SEEN the way he dresses? Idk why we expected anything less. Leave it to him and sheās leaving the house dressed to the 9ās every time. He thinks itās the cutest thing ever.
Is probably what you would call a āgentle parentā. He never, EVER raises his voice at her, and even when heās frustrated heās really good at keeping his cool and handling whatever outbursts she decides to have that day. Heās soft, but if sheās being bad heās very stern with her and is surprisingly good at holding his foot down even though sheās got him wrapped around his finger.Ā
Is definitely a good parent in all stages of his kidās life. Toddler, child, preteen, etc. Not that your kid doesnāt trust you but if sheās in trouble or needs something sheās ABSOLUTELY going to call her dad first. Itās like heās waiting by the phone just in case she calls because he always answers on the first ring no matter what.Ā
Something i headcanon about him as a parent is that he is neverrrr going to make you look like the bad parent, ever. If you make a decision, heāll stand by you. If he disagrees with it heās going to wait to talk to you in private, and THEN talk to your kid with you as a team. Heās very much an āon your sideā husband and i love that.Ā













