#lyingmen

We live in a world where you can pretty much find out anything, about anybody, at any given time.  Unless of course this person purposely lives off the grid ie. no SM and in the online dating world provides no pics, no real name and uses a text to phone app to communicate off line.  

So what’s wrong with wanting privacy you ask? Nothing, BUT if you are going to enter into the online dating world and you maintain this secretive need for privacy you can bet your ass he is hiding something.

When a man messages me on line and does not have the decency to at the very least send me a pic with his message, it's a NOPE!  I get you want to keep your profile hidden, afraid of the dangers of online dating.  Well, if a man is too afraid to show his face and he doesn't have the balls to level the playing field when messaging me, he is NOT a man worthy of my time😂.  That and chances are he is UNATTRACTIVE. 100% of the time I have entertained this conversation only to be sent pictures after 3 or 4 messages are exchanged, the man is NOT attractive.  So now I have to awkwardly tell him this.  Your own fault son....you could have saved yourself the embarrassment by being honest to begin with. 

Imagine a man walking up to you in a bar wearing a paper bag over his head.  Would you smile and welcome a conversation with this man.  HELL NO!!   

It’s rude, cowardly and let’s face it down right weird lol

Now I have heard EVERY excuse in the book.  “I can’t show my face because of my job”  Oh yeah??? Do you work for CSIS?  Are you an internationally known super hero??  In which case you should not be online dating.  “I’m a fireman and can’t show my face” LMFAO are you afraid that pussy cat you rescued is going to claw your eyes out when she sees you online again?? 🤣 For those of you who don’t know, the reason Firemen and Police don’t put up their real pics is because they are dogs are are just there to fuck every women and move on.  

So, now let’s add to the mix, NOT having  a name on the profile, and only wanting to communicate via some app like KIK or snap.  THIS MAN IS NOT SINGLE!!!!!!!