why does he treat me so horrible if he goes on about how pretty i am?
Hey bestie!
First things first, sorry you are dealing with this kind of treatment. If a man or anyone for that matter treats you horribly, it's essential to recognize your worth and not tolerate such behavior. You deserve respect and kindness in all your relationships. It's important to set boundaries and communicate your feelings clearly.
💎 Now here’s some real talk:
This is the bad side of pretty privilege, the same reason a man likes you is the reason they can envy you. They see the attention you receive, the doors that open for you, and it can breed resentment. The compliments that flow in can sometimes mask the jealousy simmering beneath the surface.
While you bask in the glow of admiration, there are those who may wish to undermine your confidence, dismissing your achievements as mere byproducts of your looks. It's a double-edged sword; the very asset that draws people in can also isolate you, making it hard to discern who values you for who you are rather than what you appear to be. In the end, navigating relationships becomes a delicate balance, as you grapple with the complexities of acceptance, admiration, and envy.
Also, he could be not only projecting his insecurities but using you only to get certain needs met!
Hope this helps 💋
