#lovilicious

Life is a test made up of multiple choices. The results of your test are determined by how well you listened to Life's Lessons. Some will do well and pass leaving a legacy of knowledge shared by many. Footprints. Whereas others will repeatedly fail due to lack of ambition. Stagnant. You have to "WANT" to do better In order to "DO" better. Applying yourself means putting your ear to the ground where your feet lead you. If you listen closely to where you're being lead, the message is as clear as the footprints you leave behind. And if you decide not to keep pushing forward, well, there you'll be. Again, it's about multiple choices. Choose.© *LET YOUR SMILE BE YOUR SMILE* TAM I AM, ME!! ALWAYS!!!©

Whatever it took to win the heart, is exactly what it takes to keep the heart. Consistency. It's so easy to get comfortable in a relationship, especially when it works. But remember: don't start off strong to end up weak. Love never fails us, the lack of care does. When people allow themselves to be less than themselves, it ultimately leads them to not believing enough in themselves. And if you don't believe in yourself, how can anyone else? It's the same with Love. If you don't Love Yourself, who will?© *LET YOUR SMILE BE YOUR SHINE* TAM I AM, ME!! ALWAYS!!©

If everything someone does is but a projection of their own world view, and their actions are either a request or an expression of giving LOVE, than that makes it much easier to understand, talk to, engage with & resolve with people. But, if You decide to open up to someone and reveal Yourself and he/she does not like it, it doesn't define YOU, its just feedback. Do not look at it as rejection neither. Not everyone is receptive to Your energy because some people battle things within themselves and cannot filter what's good or bad for them. Remain positive and continue to project Love. Those who have their guards up usually are the ones who need Love the most.© *LET YOUR SMILE BE YOUR SHINE* TAM I AM, ME!! ALWAYS!!!©

Being a friend isn't always about how much You are in agreement with one another. It's about being true to Yourself first and keeping it real thereafter. It's not about proving Yourself to anyone neither, nor buying Your way through a friendship as a token or showing of its value. It's about showing up in ones spirits by opening up Your vulnerabilities and heart without looking for a return on Your investment of friendship. It should be a mutual fund from the beginning anyway. When You are giving 100% of Your true self to Yourself, You are not subtracting from anyone that is of value to You. You are an addition to them, and they will know this without ever questioning Your worth. This is equivalent to Your relationships as well. If someone continuously withdraws from Your assets, it's time to reconsider transferring Your stock elsewhere. Being a Friend is a great investment, but being a true friend to Yourself is an even greater investment.© *LET YOUR SMILE BE YOUR SHINE* TAM I AM, ME!! ALWAYS!!!©

Whatever a man gives a women, she will receive it, and she gives it back in an abundance of Love that is not comparable to any monetary value. A man that Loves his woman does not judge her; instead, he embraces her Indifferences and brings out the best in her by encouraging her better attributes. A woman who Loves her man has the strength of ten oxen when the support is needed to stand beside him, and defend any battle or obstacle that challenges his alacrity to reign supreme over any circumstance. If Men and Women accepted one another as assets instead of possessions, a progression of wholeness, value and morals would be sustained in the dwelling of their parallel being. This fusion is what governs the future mindset of our seeds. At what moment do we begin to abide by these morals? That moment is not by contingency, but by diligence.© *LET YOUR SMILE BE YOUR SHINE* TAM I AM, ME!! ALWAYS!!!©