#lover reading

This reading is all about how your love life will look like next month. Not just romantic love, but all sorts of love. We are positive here!

💗!time to pick a reading!💗

Pile 1:

The following month is going to be full of beautiful moments with your friends where you all just sit somewhere and genuinely laugh. There is lot of positivity for you here! You will feel incredibly fulfilled and excited about seeing each other and just having fun. You might even find someone you find very attractive ;). This person might not become someone serious in your life, but you can certainly enjoy looking at them and telling your friends about them! You will also not experience any fighting or discussions or anything. When it comes to your loved ones and the ones you receive a lot of love from every day, that cicle will continue with many lovely moments that pique from the rest!

Pile 2:

You will be a bit more prone to miscommunication and difficult moments when it comes to your closest friend and potentially even your lover, so look out if this is the case for you! This does not mean conflict is going to happen for sure, but it can pop up out of nowhere. These things will not be complicated or very harsh, but it is something you might have to sit down on and think about for a little bit with the persons involved. Any solutions made or realizations made will be very bittersweet. A hug will be given, and depending on with whom you will solve this miscommunication with some tears might even be shed. This does not apply for every single one of you, but if you have a friend or a family member who is very sweet and kind, but can take things out of context this is something to look out for. There is going to be a lot of love shining through this potential conflict.

Pile 3:

-Very intelligent

-Very tricky/manipulative -> loves to self-victimize and make himself seem weaker than he really is

-Good at socializing with others 

-Very competitive and very ambitious -> pretends that he isn’t like that

-High expectations for self and for others -> hard on himself and on others -> very criticizing in a passive aggressive way

-Very passive aggressive -> holds grudges for life

-Quirky

-Seems gentle but isn’t -> very tough and resilient 

-Bottles things inside of him -> has a lot of frustrations, hate, anger inside of him but approaches everyone with a smile

-Good at acting friendly with others, but inside probably doesn’t really think that way

-Love to be center stage -> can’t stand being in the shadows; very thirsty for attention/fame

-Very greedy -> $$$ and fame are very important to him

-Loves being praised

-Will throw ppl under the bus without them knowing -> prefers to befriend ppl who are weaker than him but also be close to those that are useful to him 

-Gets stressed out easily

-Thinks a lot/plans a lot 

-Control, control, control 

-Low levels of empathy deep down, but outside will act like he cares so much about others and is so gentle

-Seems happy/cheerful but deep down not so much

Jeon Jungkook as a lover changes his mind very often and gets sick of the same situation/relationship pretty easily. He wants intrigue and excitement which happens during the courting phase/getting-to-know one another phase. He likes those ambiguous situations, blurred lines between friendship and a romantic relationship. He despises routine and boredom. He doesn’t like stability, yet he also wants a place to call home. 

He is very moody as a lover. He can get frustrated pretty easily and snap at his lover. He has a lot of picky habits and will nitpick when he knows his lover more. 

He wants loyalty, yet he also wants rebellious behavior. He loves challenges and loves to go after love interests who play hard to get or who don’t find him attractive. He loves conquering his target and making them fall for him. 

When he’s into someone, he will do all it takes to make them into him. Once they are intrigued by him, he’ll lose interest and move onto the next love interest. 

He changes from being the one that actively chases someone or waits to hook the person so that they chase after him. He is not inexperienced in the game of love; he likes to seem innocent to the public when he knows that makes people’s guards go down and trust him. 

He’s fun and brings excitement to a relationship. He prefers open relationships without any strings attached. He likes the freedom. He does want to know his partner’s whereabouts and what they’re up to, yet he still wants the mystery about them. It’s hard for him to resolve these conflicting feelings within him. 

He doesn’t have any intentions on marrying anytime soon. He wants to enjoy his freedom for as long as he can and he hasn’t found anyone that he wants to marry. He does make many of his lovers believe that he will marry them with false promises about the future and making plans with them verbally. His lovers almost always blindly believe in his talks of idealism and then think they will really marry him. They also become very obsessive over him and will have a tendency to stalk him or want to control him. If he doesn’t manage past lovers well, they will seek revenge on him. Most of the time, he’s able to continue to drive that love fantasy for them and string them along. 

Eventually he will want to marry for the sake of his career and for the sake of carrying on his lineage. He cares a lot about continuing his bloodline through children. He will want a spouse who listens to him completely and is very obedient. He’ll shape them to be lovable to the public. The public will think they are the perfect husband and wife. He is all about the image.  

Behind closed doors, the marriage will be tense in a subtle way. His spouse will feel like they’re always stepping on eggshells. He’ll also want the children to be taught in a certain way and will be strict. He’s very passive aggressive about his frustration and anger. He can turn to disciplining the children if they don’t obey him and when he’s arguing with his spouse, he could get violent and throw things to the ground. It’s hard to control him once he’s angered. He will also continue to have lovers on the side with the spouse desperately trying to make him loyal and blindly believing that he loves them most.

-Has a possessive side -> will want to be in control a lot and will want to be in control of his lover’s social network/connections; will also be restricting their work etc

-Can get jealous of the other easily esp if they do better than him in their career -> he wants his lover to be weaker than him esp for their career and wants them to rely on him more

-Protective

-Sweet/romantic 

-Can be very controlling/dominating -> his way is the right way in his mind -> his way or the highway

-His lover must be loyal to him, but he can be not loyal to them

-Quite generous in terms of gifting his lover 

-Will keep having a lover a secret to others -> likes secretive relationships

-Can often get into relationships that are frowned upon by most/forbidden (i.e. lover could already be taken, a big age gap b/t them, etc.)

-Has a lot of power struggles within relationships

-Very confident ->believes in himself; can come off as being arrogant; often thinks he’s always right

-Playful

-Witty

-Kind of naughty -> likes to break rules when he wants or find loopholes -> kind of sneaky -> likes to joke around a lot

-Sarcastic and sassy

-Funny

-Charming -> attracts a lot of ppl and they like him as a friend -> has many friends but few lead to anything more than that -> often gets friend zoned a lot ->lots of unrequited situations and secretive about his love life

-May seem very optimistic and cheerful, but is actually very pessimistic and worries a lot -> likes to act stronger than he really is

-Pays attention to detail 

-Can be controlling in a relationship-> wants things his way/highway -> will face lots of situations in love where his outlook on life clashes with his lover’s 

-Likes to act nonchalant, but cares a lot about many things -> many pet peeves and picky 

-A bit of a perfectionist 

-Likes to be the center of attention/enjoys the spotlight

-Dramatic -> can exaggerate things or lie 

-Often gets backstabbed by his friends and family -> lots of ppl just want to be friends for his $$ or fame 

Park Jimin is a very observant, perceptive lover. He cares about the minute details. He has a very specific type, yet he also adores attention and love from others. He will tend to have a few long-term lovers and many others on the side that he receives attention/gifts/compliments/care from. He needs to get people’s attention in order to feel appreciated and loved. His confidence comes from such.

Some of Jimin’s lovers are very docile and listen to his every request/wish. They support him fully and are very encouraging. They’re willing to give everything of themselves to make him feel happy like their money, time, affection etc. They see him like their life’s purpose. He enjoys the support he gives them, but he doesn’t actually return their love.

He finds himself attracted to lovers who are the opposite of the above. They are degrading and condescending towards him. They are picky towards him and criticize him. They have very powerful and dominant personalities. Jimin wants to be able to tame them and get them to “change”. He’s extremely attracted to those who are broken on the inside and need a lot of care, and he has this innate desire to want to be the one that shapes them for the “better”. 

Jimin wants a steady, loving relationship, yet when his partner is actually loyal, loving, and stable, he finds that to be very suffocating and stressful. He finds it hard to reciprocate their love and wants to seek others while pushing the ones that care about him away. He doesn’t want to disappoint those that are genuine to him, yet he also wants to test them to see just how much they love him. 

He may have inclinations towards marriage, but the actual marriage will suffocate him and cause him a lot of pain. The marriage will be very tumultuous or very cold. He won’t marry this lifetime. 

Mark Lee doesn’t care much about having deep love or romance. In relationships, he cares most about physical compatibility and intrigue. He can’t stand it when relationships get boring or get too serious. Once a lover wants to settle down, he will run away and avoid them. He will cut them off and leave them hanging or he will make excuses to stop seeing them like work or stalkers etc. He breaks the relationships first, not others. 

He sees relationships as more of an outlet for his body. He highly values sex. His lovers have to be compatible with him in bed. He doesn’t see monogamy as something required in a relationship. He is happiest in open relationships with no strings attached and there are no expectations from one another to celebrate anniversaries or give each other gifts. He likes lighthearted relationships that are carefree and open. He also wants his lovers not to keep being by his side. He needs his own time and space to be alone. 

Mark actively pursues whoever that catches his interest. He likes to try many different types from the shy ones to the popular ones. When pursuing someone, he shapes himself to the person’s ideal type. He likes being able to “conquer” them and once he feels the game is over, he’ll leave. He likes having many “conquests” at a time and he also shows off his conquests with his friends. He finds the game of love to be interesting. 

Many of his lovers become very attached to Mark and frequently believe that he will commit to them and that they will be the ones to change Mark. They also often believe he will marry them. They become very obsessed that many even want to get pregnant or find other ways to get him to marry them. Some will come out later and probably reveal what Mark has done. The others are either too obsessed with him, can’t find any ways to reveal him or have been bought off by him/the label.