#lovelydad

Halo bapa, gimana kabarnya, bahagia kan disana? Kurang ga kiriman doaku tiap solat? Nanti aku tambahin lagi ya ditiap kumelangkah selalu akan ada doa untukmu

Tak terasa ya tahun depan hampir satu dekade tak pernah bertemu lagi,

Ga ada lagi yg selalu anter jemput tiap hari,

Ga ada lgi yg nelponin kalo pulang telat,

Ga ada lagi yg nanyain udah solat belum, ayo jangan tunda2

Ga ada lagi yg nanyain, gimana hari ini, lancar semua?

Ga ada lagi yg bangunin sepertiga malem,

Ga ada lagi yg ngajakin keliling sore naik motor liat ijo-ijo persawahan

Ga ada lagi yg bantuin ngurus hewan-hewan kesayangan di rumah,

Gapapa Pa, terimakasih atas 18 tahunnya ya Pa, terimakasih sudah mendidik dan menyayangiku walopun aku sekeras batu, si manja, si penakut dan pemalu,

Maaf ya belum bisa bahagiain Bapa, belum bisa sempat traktir gulai kikil kesukaan Bapa,

Aku cuma pengen Bapa tau, aku (berusaha) baik-baik aja disini, doain biar terus kuat menghadapi semuanya, doain biar tetap mandiri ga bergantung orang lain, doain biar tetap sehat bisa nurutin maunya ibu,

Whatever society, religion or of the family need the father's advice and attention. We need a father's love and attention individually from childhood to adolescence, at home, Ed class we are in, none of us can deny the importance of the father. The father is the most important member of the family where every member action, moving forward in life, to stand on our own two feet in the future. Every place and every opportunity in life we need a father.

But the question is this,

Do we love our father? Do we take care of our father? Do we give our father the importance he deserves

 With our friends, in the neighborhood or our immediate family. Someone's father has left the house, someone is having an affair with his co-worker woman, or someone's father has been taken away by a prostitute. Do we ever think about why this happens? Do we give our father the respect he deserves? We will try to find the answer in this article. Of course, none of us wants him to live without his father. Despite this, we see around us every day that now fifteen or twenty years after marriage, parents are often separated. And even if for some reason they are living together, they do not have love, but they are maintaining this relationship for some reason. They would not be living as life partners, but for children, for some social pressure, for some economic compulsion, etc., under such an agreement.

                                              The following are the top 10 points on how we can tell our father how I love my Dad.

, 1= Breakfast wishes

You warmly hug and kiss your dad at the breakfast table. This way in the morning you will give your dad energy that will make him feel tired and at work all day long.

2= Wait at dinner,

Also, make sure you have dinner with your dad and wait for his return until your dad arrives. Don't set the table. If he never arrives for dinner, have breakfast the next day. Let them know at the table that you missed them at dinner and without them, you would not have enjoyed dinner at all. This is the way we tell that I love my Dad.

3= Surprise lunch for him

 If your dad has a 5 to 9 job or his own business, he goes out in the morning and returns at night, arrange a surprise lunch for him. By doing this we will tell him how much I love our dad. ۔

4= Show respect for him.

Whenever your father comes to your room, stand up and meet him and first make room for him to meet him, then offer a chair to your father at the dinner table so that by respecting him, you would be consoling his self-esteem.

5= Arrange tee party.

 Whenever possible you should have a high tea party for your dad in the afternoon. This loving gesture shows him, yes , I love my Daddy.

6= Miss your messages.

If the father goes out of town for office work or business, send him messages from Miss You telling him that he is important to his family.

7=celebrate your father’s special day.

Remember your father's birthday and wedding anniversary. Celebrate these two occasions in such a way that they remember your father as a memorable event.

8= Bring gifts.

When you go out with your friends or go out of town for educational activities, bring gifts for your father. So that your father feels that you remember your father everywhere. This is one of the best points by which we describe that’s I love my Dad.

9= cook food for your father.

 Make food for your dad and make his favourite dish every weekend and try to spend your weekend with your dad so he gets a whole family atmosphere that will take away the fatigue of a whole week's work.

10= proper rest.

Take care of your father and give him proper rest and peace of mind. This last point is so important that all the other points above are useless because unless your father is mentally and physically calm and healthy. Your whole family will be disturbed

 To be concluded.

Before I say anything else, I  would like to say that most of the people and families already know and understand what I have said above. If you take care of your father and tie the knot of your family forever in an unbreakable bond, then I will be a wonder for me.

Please don't think of your father as a credit card or ATM. Understand your father's feelings and share your feelings with him. Keep making your father realize that he is