.: Love Fast, Ride Slow :.
*I hear a lot of bad talk about rushed relationships, and I don't agree with most of it.*
They say if you rush a relationship then you are bound for a failed one.
From the rushed relationships that I have been in, I can say that they were the ones with the best memories. They were the ones where the love was most intense. They were the ones that stuck in my mind.ย These girls will be forever girls I will compare to new ones that step into my life.ย They are the ones I will never forget.
(Not that I am still stuck on them, but they set the standard as to how good I was able to feel from their TLC.)
I just think that those that rush a relationship are ones that like to take greater chances. Since they are putting more emphasis on their feelings over their rational thinking it is a greater risk. And it is why
I am a strong believer in the saying,
"the higher the risk, the higher the reward."
There is always some sort of hesitation with risk, and this is why someone might feel scared to move fast into a relationship. The feeling of love from some one else is a feeling that is better than any other feeling that there is in this world, so the reward of this has an equal opposite.ย
I'M ALL ABOUT TAKING RISKS.
When you are rushing a relationship most of the time you don't know the other person very well. You are predicting their long-term character on what you have seen so far.
If you take more time to get to know some one better then you should really be able to tell right?ย
People act different when they are in a relationship. You are more open to each other. When you are in a relationship you are more open to your significant other about things than if you were to be "just friends." There is a connection in a relationship that is created that goes deeper than any connection made just as friends or even best friends. If you feel good around another person and see them as a possible significant other why not test them out in a relationship.ย
In this instance it CAN HURT to TRY.ย
BUT it is better knowing that you TRIED and FAILED, than always wondering about it.ย
It is a learning experience.ย
- What I've noticed. . . -
Most people that have been in love say they knew it the from theย moment they laid their eyes on the other.ย
("I knew from the moment I laid my eyes on you...")
so If this happened to people that are in love, then whether they date sooner than later wouldn't matter as long as love is the outcome. You just make more time with each other if it happens NOW rather than LATER. more experiences. crazy stories.ย
"we can find love in a hopeless place"
let's try even though no one else is. let's let somethin' special happen.
Just because some one looks good on 'paper' doesn't mean that they are going to be fit with them. A person can be attractive and have many things in common with you, but if there isn't a deeper connection it is soon to DIE out.ย
If I get the feeling that things can work out, then I'd wanna go for it.ย
because I am young, time is something that I am losing as I get older. So it is basically NOW or NEVER really for me. I have many instances where I have INVESTED my TIME and LOVE for something that never happened. I really don't want to deal with this bullshit. So I really think you are stupid if you don't know what you want or are looking for.
"IF YOU FEEL IT, YOU FEEL IT. IF YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW."
If I am feeling you and tell you that I can see myself being with you then it is no bullshit. You either see ITย like I do or you DON'T. So don't waste my time for your lust for my attention. Tell me what's real upfront, no time WASTED. If you like what you feel, and like what you see, then go ahead and tell me. AND trust me I WILL DO THE SAME babe.ย
"If you push me away, then it lets some one else pull me closer"
