#lintmaster1989

Yeah pretty much. 

How is something that I play out in my head (or with other consenting individuals) anything like actual rape?

- There are clear boundaries

- Yes/No exists and consent is actually involved

I’m pretty sure their idea of a rape fantasy for whatever reason, is just going out and getting raped or getting off to people actually being raped. They believe that many people with that kind of fantasy actually are that sociopathic.

Like... it’s in my head. I’m fantasizing about myself. They’re so stuck in it being “unhealthy” that they fail to realize that most sexual fantasies are actually normal and pretty common. In fact, their view on “It giving rapists a pass” arguably enables rapists even more because they’ll start viewing it as a reason why it’s fine/okay to violate someone’s consent or boundaries. 

I answered both of these for mdzs so im gonna do general ones now

Ship that you secretly like: like before, there's nothing secret about what i ship, but i haven't talked about these yet: for TGCF (which i havent finished yet rip) im a big fan of Jun Wu x Xie Lian 😩💦 and also Shi WuDu x Shi QingXuan, unsurprisingly

UHHHH 

Maybe unlinking the url but leaving it in the description. That way people can copy and paste the url onto their web browser

Valentine’s day askslovebirds: at what point in a relationship would you make it ‘public’?

I mean, I think it would vary by person I was involved with tbh. Like, if we’re talking facebook status official, I don’t think it matters too much. and you shouldn’t have to make a big deal about like, “coming out” as a couple. Like, whenever and whatever is fine as long as it’s not at the point where you’re keeping it hush hush when things get serious and all, ya feel