i'm gonna be really honest here , but i wasn't going to post anything about this person . but , considering that i do see people writing with them - it's gotten to a point where i need to speak up about them & their actual behavior . so - bear with me because i have a lot to say & a lot to show everyone .
i will preface that i do not enjoy drama on this blog because we're literally just here to write & whatnot - however , seeing that this does concern myself ( along with others ), i'm posting this for awareness .
anyways . this post will be about someone that goes by caden - their blog is sleepyzday . starting off with my experience with them , which isn't a good one , i will be saying that they did many things that i did not like nor did i condone in the threads that we've done and i will be showing the thread ( or at least the beginning , maybe some parts of what did go down in the thread with their oc - gwen . )
this was my original starter that they had responded to , mind you , it's an angst thread that features my original character , nicky . i will state that nicky is not a character that likes to be in relationships , nicky is an original character of mine that was related to another oc of mine , but for my sake here , i arranged a few of his backstory & things . in the thread featuring their original character gwen - it started off pretty normal , angsty : what i had expected from the beginning because it is an angst thread with ' exes who can't stay away from each other ', which was in the tag . to be honest , i don't think caden saw that & replied anyways .
i had continued the thread because i felt like it was going great , as do most of my threads with people - i didn't see any red flags up until their original character had put his hands on my own - which is weird because why would anyone not discuss the fact that their original character was going to act in a violent way towards mine if their character kept getting rejected ?
in their reply , as you can see : ' he grabbed nicky & slammed him into the wall before pinning him there . ' to me that's weird , why would you not express to me that your character was going to do that to mine because he didn't like the way that nicky was going about things ? rejecting gwen because he's not a relationship person : the thread was about two exes ' who couldn't stay away from each other ', meaning it was a toxic relationship from the start , might i add . here's the kicker , at the end of their reply , which again , to me is weird because how are you going to slam my character against the wall & then bury ' his face into nicky's neck to hide himself ' ??
and so , this is my reply : nicky still going strong on his personality & who he is . there wasn't any backing down , there wasn't any surrendering of any sort on nicky's end . this is where it gets really fucked up , i'm gonna be honest .
in their reply here ( now deleted ) , it says perfectly : ' he couldn't force nicky to like him but he hated the fact that he didn't ' then goes on to say : " if you don't start liking me then i'll move onto someone else , " which is basically trying to coerce nicky into having feelings for him . i didn't respond , yet i went to two of my friends because i had gotten really uncomfortable from this & obviously wanted some insight on what to do .
so , like any logical person : i had messaged caden about it .
as you can tell , i had very strong feelings about it - i still do , because how are you going to godmod my own character into having feelings for your own when you don't get your way ? exactly . i'm just going to leave the messages here for everyone to read because i don't like how they glossed by the whole thing and said : ' i'm not going to force you to write with me ' but not apologize at first for their actions ? i literally had to get their ' apology ' from them because they weren't taking me seriously at all and that's not a good feeling , especially if they were the person to make me feel uncomfortable .
now : onto everything else i've seen on their blog because it's fucking weird , i'm gonna admit .
first off , roleplaying as ATEEZ , stray kids , CPOP & TXT members ? in 2025 ? weird behavior .
Choi san / 26 / Bisexual / Single.
Park Seonghwa / 25 / Bisexual / Single.
Mingi / 28 / Gay / Single.
Hwang Hyunjin / 26 / Gay / Taken / ship for him is on : @your-sweet-cookies.
Lee yongbok (felix) / 25 / Bisexual / Single.
Boogie / 26 / Gay / Taken / Ship is on: @buildabxtchrp.
Beomgyu / 25 / Bisexual / Taken / Ships are on: @therainwork and @atbeomgyu.
the way that they're roleplaying actual celebrities & assuming their sexuality , while we're at it , is a little ... yikes . we don't know if they are / aren't gay or bisexual , to be honest with you , that's weird on its' own degree .
aging up minors - not one , but two minors .
from what i know , enid sinclair is a minor on wednesday . most people with common sense who also write enid write her as a minor - which she is - but in their sense , they've aged her up to 18 .
Enid / 18 / Pansexual / Single / Fc: Emma Mysers.
honestly, i'm gonna say that's not even the worst one because their blog also features a 14 year old character with their " oldest au " being 21 .
Muichiro Tokito / 14 (oldest au: 21) / Mist hashira.
now , you're probably wondering why they're writing a 14 year old character who's aged up to 21 - i genuinely have no idea , considering that their blog features NSFW ( sexual ) content . it doesn't say anything about that on their blog at all . but it does say on their blog :
" DO NOT TELL ME HOW TO DO MY WRITING, IF I WANT TO WRITE IN ANOTHWR FONT OR IN ALL CAPS, DONT TWLL ME I CANT, remember. Itβs my blog not yours. " totally fine , but where's the part where you tell your followers that you write sexual content on your rules ?
not to mention : they've pulled the exact same thing with me - force shipping , being overly touchy with muses & whatnot with two other people , two people that i'm going to protect unless they say that it's okay for me to use their stuff on this post . again , this isn't some malicious thing for me to do , it's to bring awareness of their odd behavior on this site . and if anyone else has had a similar experience with them as i have , please reach out to me . thank you .
in addition to this and doing more research , it seems like they also tend to β lie β ( iβm gonna put lie in quotation marks because iβm not too sure if they do this often or if itβs just something they do to protect their actual age ) but on their different blogs ( their current one included as well ) they have their age marked as different ones , which i think is interesting .
hereβs two screenshots from two different blogs they have β one marked with a pen name ( iβm not sure if they still use it at all considering their current blog as their name as caden ) . these screenshots of their ages come from the following blogs , @/therainwork and @/buildabxtchrp.
on another set of their other blog and their current one ; their ages are listed as 20 - 30 as it says on their blog @/atbeomgyu . their current age on their current blog has their age listed as 23 . i have no idea which one is their real age , but for them to β lie β about it and use different age ranges for each blog is very β¦ interesting to say the least .
they also changed their url from sleepyzday to lightsideofseoul to avoid accountability for everything they've done to me & three other people .
if you see them in the tags , please avoid from interacting with this person !
