#sleepyzday

i will preface that i do not enjoy drama on this blog because we're literally just here to write & whatnot - however , seeing that this does concern myself ( along with others ), i'm posting this for awareness .

anyways . this post will be about someone that goes by caden - their blog is sleepyzday . starting off with my experience with them , which isn't a good one , i will be saying that they did many things that i did not like nor did i condone in the threads that we've done and i will be showing the thread ( or at least the beginning , maybe some parts of what did go down in the thread with their oc - gwen . )

this was my original starter that they had responded to , mind you , it's an angst thread that features my original character , nicky . i will state that nicky is not a character that likes to be in relationships , nicky is an original character of mine that was related to another oc of mine , but for my sake here , i arranged a few of his backstory & things . in the thread featuring their original character gwen - it started off pretty normal , angsty : what i had expected from the beginning because it is an angst thread with ' exes who can't stay away from each other ', which was in the tag . to be honest , i don't think caden saw that & replied anyways .

i had continued the thread because i felt like it was going great , as do most of my threads with people - i didn't see any red flags up until their original character had put his hands on my own - which is weird because why would anyone not discuss the fact that their original character was going to act in a violent way towards mine if their character kept getting rejected ?

in their reply , as you can see : ' he grabbed nicky & slammed him into the wall before pinning him there . ' to me that's weird , why would you not express to me that your character was going to do that to mine because he didn't like the way that nicky was going about things ? rejecting gwen because he's not a relationship person : the thread was about two exes ' who couldn't stay away from each other ', meaning it was a toxic relationship from the start , might i add . here's the kicker , at the end of their reply , which again , to me is weird because how are you going to slam my character against the wall & then bury ' his face into nicky's neck to hide himself ' ??

and so , this is my reply : nicky still going strong on his personality & who he is . there wasn't any backing down , there wasn't any surrendering of any sort on nicky's end . this is where it gets really fucked up , i'm gonna be honest .

in their reply here ( now deleted ) , it says perfectly : ' he couldn't force nicky to like him but he hated the fact that he didn't ' then goes on to say : " if you don't start liking me then i'll move onto someone else , " which is basically trying to coerce nicky into having feelings for him . i didn't respond , yet i went to two of my friends because i had gotten really uncomfortable from this & obviously wanted some insight on what to do .

so , like any logical person : i had messaged caden about it .

as you can tell , i had very strong feelings about it - i still do , because how are you going to godmod my own character into having feelings for your own when you don't get your way ? exactly . i'm just going to leave the messages here for everyone to read because i don't like how they glossed by the whole thing and said : ' i'm not going to force you to write with me ' but not apologize at first for their actions ? i literally had to get their ' apology ' from them because they weren't taking me seriously at all and that's not a good feeling , especially if they were the person to make me feel uncomfortable .

now : onto everything else i've seen on their blog because it's fucking weird , i'm gonna admit .

first off , roleplaying as ATEEZ , stray kids , CPOP & TXT members ? in 2025 ? weird behavior .

Choi san / 26 / Bisexual / Single.

Park Seonghwa / 25 / Bisexual / Single.

Mingi / 28 / Gay / Single.

Hwang Hyunjin / 26 / Gay / Taken / ship for him is on : @your-sweet-cookies.

Lee yongbok (felix) / 25 / Bisexual / Single.

Boogie / 26 / Gay / Taken / Ship is on: @buildabxtchrp.

Beomgyu / 25 / Bisexual / Taken / Ships are on: @therainwork and @atbeomgyu.

the way that they're roleplaying actual celebrities & assuming their sexuality , while we're at it , is a little ... yikes . we don't know if they are / aren't gay or bisexual , to be honest with you , that's weird on its' own degree .

aging up minors - not one , but two minors .

from what i know , enid sinclair is a minor on wednesday . most people with common sense who also write enid write her as a minor - which she is - but in their sense , they've aged her up to 18 .

Enid / 18 / Pansexual / Single / Fc: Emma Mysers.

honestly, i'm gonna say that's not even the worst one because their blog also features a 14 year old character with their " oldest au " being 21 .

Muichiro Tokito / 14 (oldest au: 21) / Mist hashira.

now , you're probably wondering why they're writing a 14 year old character who's aged up to 21 - i genuinely have no idea , considering that their blog features NSFW ( sexual ) content . it doesn't say anything about that on their blog at all . but it does say on their blog :

" DO NOT TELL ME HOW TO DO MY WRITING, IF I WANT TO WRITE IN ANOTHWR FONT OR IN ALL CAPS, DONT TWLL ME I CANT, remember. It’s my blog not yours. " totally fine , but where's the part where you tell your followers that you write sexual content on your rules ?

not to mention : they've pulled the exact same thing with me - force shipping , being overly touchy with muses & whatnot with two other people , two people that i'm going to protect unless they say that it's okay for me to use their stuff on this post . again , this isn't some malicious thing for me to do , it's to bring awareness of their odd behavior on this site . and if anyone else has had a similar experience with them as i have , please reach out to me . thank you .

in addition to this and doing more research , it seems like they also tend to ‘ lie ‘ ( i’m gonna put lie in quotation marks because i’m not too sure if they do this often or if it’s just something they do to protect their actual age ) but on their different blogs ( their current one included as well ) they have their age marked as different ones , which i think is interesting .

here’s two screenshots from two different blogs they have — one marked with a pen name ( i’m not sure if they still use it at all considering their current blog as their name as caden ) . these screenshots of their ages come from the following blogs , @/therainwork and @/buildabxtchrp.

on another set of their other blog and their current one ; their ages are listed as 20 - 30 as it says on their blog @/atbeomgyu . their current age on their current blog has their age listed as 23 . i have no idea which one is their real age , but for them to ‘ lie ‘ about it and use different age ranges for each blog is very … interesting to say the least .

they also changed their url from sleepyzday to lightsideofseoul to avoid accountability for everything they've done to me & three other people .

The place is quiet, save for the soft breathing of both occupants of the room, one set of breaths fast and sharp while the other is soft and slow. The room is softly illuminated by the bright light of the moon, bathing the small kitchen in Isagi's apartment in a silvery light. It's just enough light for Isagi to admire the way that Chifuyu's back bends as Isagi presses the blond against the table, the way his blond hair clings to the back of his neck as Isagi drags his fingers through it, gently wrapping the locks around them to give them a gentle tug.

Niragi had no idea how he had ended up at his work out of all places. He simply had needed to get out of the Beach for a while and as he snapped out of his stupor he was in front of the very building he was going in and out of for several years. He hesitated for a moment before following an impulse and going inside. The militant slowly climbed up the stairs until he had reached the right floor. There he used his rifle to open the door so he could step inside.