About a month ago I made a post about my concerns about a workshop I was attending (as part of my job next year) regarding Queers (used in this sense as an umbrella term of the LGBITQ community). If you wish, you can read it http://eissacsyddieallan.tumblr.com/post/102180038732/i-have-this-training-session-next-month-called
So, my overall thoughts were that the workshop was run smoothly, effectively, and safely. When I mean safely, I mean that from the get go I was in what is known as a “Safer Space” where I was free to talk and participate as much – or as little – as I wanted, and it was a non-assumption, non-judgemental place. This made me really happy, and helped to immediately erased those concerns I had previously been having. The session was run by two queer members of the university, and after talking with them I felt comfortable (and kind of excited) to meet them again, and visit the Queer Lounge on campus (which is one of my goals for next year).
The information was quite brief, as three hours was not enough time to delve into the depths of sexuality, gender, heteronormativity, and the effect that society has on this. From previous research I had done – and the wonderful followees that post about sexualities and genders – I knew 90% of what was covered in the workshop. The other 10% were what aspects actually make up sexualities and genders, and techniques I can use to help support those who are queer, and as well as better myself and help to better society around me.
The two main things that I decided to take away from this (and those who are still ready can too) is Don’t assume, or automatically assign genders, sexualities, qualities, etc. Allow others to identify themselves to YOU, and accept their identity.
