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TikTok: @koko_minx

"✨ How Masculinas Quantify Their Value ✨

'M e n should pay for dates because lashes cost this much, hair and nails cost that much, facials and skin care are expensive. If m e n want a *feminine* woman then they should know it costs money' etc

I’m sure we’ve all seen variations on this by now, and women cheering it in the comments. Ladies, please cut it out. This kind of talk cheapens you, reduces you to a caricature, and is a sure giveaway that you’ve only dated dusties.

Feminine women NEVER talk like that, and I'll tell you why. First, it's not our job to teach m e n how to act, and when you talk like that, you're aiming your message at feminine dusties who had masculine mothers.

Any m a n who was raised by and around feminine women already knows all this. He has seen the numerous potions and lotions on his mother's dresser, her beautifully maintained hair and nails that required frequent trips to the salon, as well as her love for beautiful outfits, fragrances, make-up, and pretty shoes. He knows that beauty takes effort, time, and money.

Quality masculine m e n also put significant effort and expense into their grooming and wardrobes. Sure, getting ready isn’t as time-consuming for them as it is for us, but he makes sure his hair, beard, and nails are clean, well-maintained and neat. He’ll also buy expensive perfume and after-shave, invest in well-cut shirts and suits. He will also splurge on quality shoes and watches. But he doesn’t think; ‘I had better wear my Rolex to this date or she'll think I want to go halfsies'.

No, he looks his best because he has self-respect and knows the power of first impressions. Furthermore, this kind of petty tit-for-tat thinking isn’t even in his mental repertoire. He expects a woman to look good on a date because the women in his family always looked good anyway, date or no date.

As much as he appreciates femininity and can note easily how much care went into the makeup and outfit, he isn’t astonished by a well-dressed, carefully made-up woman as though this is a rare sight for him.

The other thing is that feminine women and masculine men are comfortable in their roles and they don’t need to persuade the other to conform. They simply won’t date someone who is that incompatible that the basics need spelling out.

Now, back to the idea that this talk cheapens you, ladies: you should never audition or try to persuade someone of your worth in dollars and cents. More importantly, you are assuming that the pleasure of your company, character, charm, class and manners aren’t valuable.

Masculine m e n know that a well-rounded, charming, well-adjusted, emotionally mature woman is a rarity. They have sat across from enough boring, painfully dull, bobble-headed bimbos to recognise a quality feminine woman instantly.

He won’t care about your pricey extensions, gel nails, and lashes if you’re prickly, defensive, dull, and entitled. Masculine men pick up the tab with pleasure not just because they have good manners, but because the delightful company of a feminine lady is a treat to them.

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My take on this:

I created a life I deserve. From scratch. Cheers to that! 💕🥂