#letsstartfresh

My friends and I have one rule for Christmas and it always brought us really nice encounters. Our tradition is to invite everyone to join us on Christmas because nobody should be alone for Christmas when they don't want to. This year @sam.fanous.art invited us to his place and it was the loveliest and most relaxed Christmas ever (and my Christmas is pretty relaxed without obligations). A group of people who we've never met before. In this room were 8 different nationalities, several religions, 10 personalities and a cat. Everyone was so open, loving and accepting. I've never ever been in a room before where I felt instantly accepted but also was so accepting of others then at that moment. Thank you all for this healing experience. You are extraordinarily human beings. Lobi 💞 #christmas #urbantribe #letsstartfresh #healing #mentalhealth #bestchristmas #grateful #thankful #bestmoments https://www.instagram.com/p/B6iPKHUFY8S/?igshid=1ci2ccbr01t90

Day 31 of #40days40outfits Not everything you see is shiny. Sunday Funday also means walking around in comfy clothes. Spending a day cleaning the house, preparing for Christmas and listening to music. Outfit details: Sweater - Primark Sports leggings - Even & Odd #letsstartfresh #sundayfunday #firstadvent #cleaningup #wardrobe #fashion #homeoutfit (at Miss Carly & Co. Hq) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5iiWojFtjE/?igshid=181mc69r9o6ne

Day 30 of #40days40outfits Yesterday evening was great and although I didn't come home too late I still feel the aftermath. My cheeks are glowing, I have a head ache and this weird feeling of not knowing what you want to do. To make myself feel better I'm going out to see a movie and indulge in movie theatre food. Outfit details: Pink sweater - @hemanederland Black pants and the shoes were gifted to me. #letsstartfresh #feelingsick #thisisnotme #pinkismycolor #stepbystep #relax #saturdayfun (at Pathé) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5ff1XzFGmU/?igshid=7pxrrqzg91ej

Day 28 of #40days40outfits Today I wore this outfit to the office and it was confusing people. Someone called my look goth, another person called it hip hop. Both comments made me smile. I truly liked my outfit this day. That was a good thing as the rest of the day/world/universe was making me feel as black as my outfit. I don't know what it was. Outfit details: Shirt & jeans worn before in the challenge Bomber jacket - Elvi via @thebiggerblog Booties - New Yorker four years ago Headband - gift from Brazil by @100procentjacqueline #letsstartfresh #newmoon #notmyday #tomorrowwillbebetter #thanksgiving #ootd https://www.instagram.com/p/B5ew0wLlNh8/?igshid=1ochatkvsetpj

Day 24 of #40days40outfits She is back! My sister from another mister, the bff, the person who is always there, she is back from her travels to Brazil. I'm happy that she is back and I can hug her again (and again and again). At the same time I feel sad that she couldn't/wouldn't stay longer in Brazil. She was so happy there and I only want the best and happiest of things for my friend. I am so conflicted in my feelings right now. Anyways, @100procentjacqueline is back and I'm happy she is here. Outfit details: Coat - bought at a bloggers closet sale from @thebiggerblog Turtle neck - @Primark Pants - gifted by @100procentjacqueline Boots - bought at a bloggers closet Sale from @josinewille #letsstartfresh #travels #empowerment #friends #sisters #wardrobechallenge #myfriend #vintage #vintagefashion #grateful #happiness (at Schiphol, Noord-Holland, Netherlands) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5QgfPfFn4r/?igshid=6ekj4h3yms96

Day 23 - #40days40outfits It is Saturday date night. Football, movies and a short skirt. Can you believe that I have been super insecure about my legs? With legs filled with lip edema and people around me telling me that I have to cover up, you probably understand that, to me, my legs are not the prettiest part of my body. It took me a numerous times of #40days40outfits, many great friends and years of therapy to accept the body I have and see it for what it is, a body. "Love the body you are in." Lobi da Basi 💞 Outfit details: Dress - @ca Boots - @primark #letsstartfresh #shakethatass #saturday #datenight #movienight #misscarlyenco #wardrobechallenge #empowerment #happysize #sizehappy #loveyourbody #effyourbeautystandards #bodypositivity (at Johan Cruijff ArenA) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5OPphnFKGk/?igshid=1ivqkqswp7rg0

Day 14 of #40days40outfits and I'm starting to sense a theme for this week. Up until now all my outfits from this week have been with a faux leather garment. I think I like the idea of a week theme in garments for myself. Maybe I'll keep it going. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Btw if you want more sustainable fashion inspo you should check out @lookfabulous.forless She is amazing and I believe all of her garments are second hand. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Outfit details: Sweater - @zeeman_textielsupers Pants - @msmode Boots bought at a bloggers event Glasses - @eyewishopticiens ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #letsstartfresh #sustainablefashion #wardrobechallenge #fastfashion #officeoutfit #followtip (at IRECKONU) https://www.instagram.com/p/B476HzeltIN/?igshid=1atcb88gzwih9

Day 10 of #40days40outfits was a super chill Sunday. Outfit: Turtleneck @hm Skirt second hand Tights @hemanederland #letsstartfresh #wardrobechallenge #sustainablefashion #fastfashion #bebettereveryday (at Miss Carly & Co. Hq) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4vU5sNlVvv/?igshid=2wzyd5yaxptk