question for lesbianblur/butchfemmeblur (for ADULT QUEERS WHO HAVE EXPERIENCE IN THE REAL WORLD not for discourse warriors pls this is not about label discourse this is about personal experience)
this is gonna sound so so stupid, but are masculine femmes a thing? like do people who take up the femme role in relationships and lesbian culture also sometimes or all the time present masc.. like a chapstick femme or smth idk ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
i've started to drift more into femme roles especially since becoming closer with my partner who is a butch but previously i've heavily fallen into butch roles and presentation and am on testosterone and masculine and it's all so confusing shsbhd














