#learningfrommymistakes

I know that I have been through a lot but I still wake up every morning to keep on trying to make my dreams come true. I feel like all of my ups and downs have shaped me into the person I am now. I love myself more because I am more confident and satisfied with who I am becoming. I stopped comparing myself to others and depending on guys liking me back in order to feel better about myself. I love myself the way that God created me! I learned from my mistakes. I choose to become smarter and wiser because I want to make a difference in our world.

'Com cada erro, precisamos estar de fato aprendendo' #quotes #lyrics #thebeatles #whilemyguitargentlyweeps #learningfrommymistakes https://www.instagram.com/p/CExczoMjGRq/?igshid=ncwe2ine1cg2

Posted @withregram • @wellhayley Amended. Repost @aoc thank you. Listening. Learning. Growing. It’s literally the least I can do right now. #blackouttuesday #theshowmustbepaused #learningfrommymistakes #endsystemicracism https://www.instagram.com/p/CA9a_o2gepW/?igshid=lmfnrn47kzlw

Today we will explore how self judgement can short us down. Most of us tend to be hard on ourselves, our self judgement can be unrelenting especially when we make mistakes and we think of our errors as failures; they can sometimes lead us to unforeseen paths, deeper understanding or new discoveries. Take the case of Alexander Fleming the physician and microbiologist. When he went on vacation in1928. He left sitting in the corner of his hospital lab a stack of petri dishes he has been using to study the bacteria that causes sorry throat and abscesses. He later returned to find that most of the dishes hasn't been properly stored they'd grown mould and most were unsalvagable but amidst the mess he found one petri dish with a particular mould that has stopped the bacteria around it from spreading his slip up led to his discovery of penicillin the world's first antibiotic. His mistakes turned out to be a breakthrough that revolutionized our ability to fight infections. Mistakes and failures are part of life but mindfulness allows us to consider how we want to respond in the moment when things don't work out as planned. We can pause and consider what can I learn here? Is there an opportunity for growth. Self criticism and judgement shuts us down where as compassion and forgiveness opens us up so don't be so quick to judge your mistakes and failures practice openness and self compassion cause you never know where your mistakes will lead you, how you'll grow and what you'll learn. As Richelle E Goodrich said "many times what we perceive as an error is actually a gift and eventually we find that lessons learned from that discouraging experience prove to be of great worth." #selfcompassion #selflove #failure #learningfrommymistakes #mistakes #newbegining #dealingwithaddiction #overcomingaddictions #anxiety #dealingwithanxiety #howtodealwithanxiety #highperformancehabits #livingyourdream #dreamaudaciously #calmmeditation #dailycalm #dailycalmquote #anewyou #anewversionofyou #setyourintentions #serendipity #naturalproducts #healthylivingdaily https://www.instagram.com/p/B7XyB6qJ7wM/?igshid=90zj3vip7woc

I am, right???

I'm learning from my mistakes and determined not to repeat them again. #learningfrommymistakes #sorrytothoseidonewrong #wishicouldchangethings

👆👆👆👆👆And that was the story of my past “love life” lol It’s so easy to “fall in love” with the person’s potential, but their “potential” is not enough to determine if he/she is a great future spouse that God has for you. It’s crucial to pay attention to who and where they are NOW. If you can’t love him/her for who and where they are now, then you will never be able to ACCEPT them. This is where “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” quoted by Maya Angelou.💁🏾‍♀️👁👀Yes God can truly change that person IF they let Him and be intentional in their own spiritual growth. Unless he/she doesn’t believe in Him (Are they Saved? Or are you trying to change him/her aka Missionary Dating? It’s ok, I’m guilty of that too lol 🤷🏾‍♀️). But I learned if you see some discrepancies or red flags 🚩🚩🚩at your “first hello” then you need to give them your “first AND last goodbye” lol The longer you continue to stay in that relationship, when you know good and well that you see red flags every day, the HARDER it will be for you to get OUT of that relationship. 🚫Don’t fall in love with their potential. 🚫 Pay Attention. 👁👁 #mypastlovelife #spiritualgrowth #learningeverysingleday #HereiswhatIlearnedsofar #journeyofbeingwhole #strivingtobetter #learningfrommymistakes