Honest to god what made you think comparing a trans woman to a man would be okay.
What made you think that these women, who fought(and are still fighting) tooth and fucking NAIL to be themselves and be seen for who they really are(you know, women), would be okay with you coming up and saying they look like this male character/person.
Did you really think that would make them happy? That theyâd be grateful for it?? That theyâd laugh and agree with you???
And theyâre NOT being over sensitive about it.
The average cis woman doesnât like being compared to men EITHER!!!!
One time my dad told his accountant, with his whole ass chest, like it was so cool, that she looked like Conway Twitty. Conway Twitty!!!!!! She very much did NOT like it and I wanted to DIE.
So what in gods FUCKING name makes you think a TRANS WOMAN would be okay with it. Seriously. These women who are constantly misgendered in everyday life in every environment. Canât even get people to not call them âDudeâ for fucks sake!!! Are targeted constantly for just being themselves.
And you come in and say âwow you look like *insert male person here*!â
Yeah Iâm sure you really made that trans womenâs day. Made her whole fucking life I bet.
And itâs so fucking shitty. So shitty that it feels like I have to bring up cis women on a post about trans women to try to make you get it. It shouldnât be like this.
A trans woman saying âDonât do thisâ is enough. Itâs more than enough.