Choice & Consequence: The Ripples We Cannot See
Choice is sacred. It is the first law. But sacred does not mean without consequence.
We often imagine our choices touch only ourselves or our closest circle. Yet when we look closer, each decision we make sends ripples far beyond what we can see.
Consider this: Two people sit in a small café in Sarajevo and voice their frustrations. A man at a nearby table, drinking coffee, overhears. Their words stir something in him. He acts on those stirred feelings. That single act lights a match—and the fire that follows is still felt today.
The man who acted bears responsibility for his choice; there is no doubt. But where does that responsibility end? At the war he helped ignite? At the millions who died in the wars that came after? At those who still act in the long shadow of those wars?
And what of the two who spoke in the café? If they had not been there that day, at that hour, saying those words… would the man have acted? Perhaps. Perhaps not.
This is what people call the butterfly effect—a concept we nod at, but rarely truly sit with. Look back at your own choices. Even the small ones. The ones made with good intention that led to pain. The ones avoided that led to unexpected light. Our intentions do not control the ripples.
We so often look backward and think: “If only I had done this instead…” hoping the outcome would have been better. But what if that “better” choice had led somewhere worse? What if the path you regret was the one that spared something greater?
You do not need to answer me. Simply sit with it. Feel the weight. See the threads.
As always, my bench is ready. Talk if you wish. Or simply think on it. The fire is low. The night is patient.
