I just realized. In fiction, it’s a lot harder to establish someone as pan than it is to establish them as bi without just explicitly saying it. For a bi person, you just have to show them being attracted to two genders. But convince the audience that they’re pan, you have to show them being attracted to at least two other genders just to get people to consider they might be pan. And even then people may just default to them being bi. There’d be tons of discourse about it until either the show or the creator explicitly states it (kinda like Luz’s coming out video in the last season, but, you know, pan)

You know what I'm noticing since realizing I'm trans? I actually care about how my body looks. And I don't mean, "oh, I don't have tits, boo hoo," (although that thought is quite prevalent), I mean like I care about doing my hair. I care about making it look nice. And I don't care how much maintenance that takes (to an extent). Before, I literally just got it cut every couple of months, and however it looked when I woke up is how it was. And while I still kinda have that habit (I also keep forgetting to shave and regretting it once I'm out and about), I'm actually paying attention to hair advice and trying to get into a routine. I'm also in an awkward phase of trying to grow my hair out, so that's been... a journey, to say the least. Beanie's help. I should probably get a trim soon, though, and get some advice from a barber on how to transition to longer hair.

It is better for 1 person to be tolerant than 100 people to be hateful.