Let's play a game, shall we?
You have two choices and both suck so choose wisely. Also you can't opt out of itπ«‘
You're in the victorian era, full of fluffy gowns, tea and rigid social structure. You could only be two things: mistress or mrs.
The mistress of Steve Rogers, one of the elite and wealthy noblemen but he is married.
You're his wife with a high social standing even if he's respectful at best. However, You're also having a secret affair to fulfill your desires.
Wait, Steve marrying me but not fulfilling his marital duties? I'm filing for divorce π or poisoning him slowly.
No, it's not the case of have a cake and eat it too, so I'm not marrying him to have a secret affair with someone else. Pfft, I'd rather be a mistress and be fucked good, and maybe spoiled, too.