i would never usually post on something like this but i am worried about young adults dating havel now i have caught up and as someone who has been close friends with him
i can remember one occassion someone warned me their friend got coerced into being sexual on call with him, where they werent really reciprocating but he kept going. at the time i confronted him about this and he said he just thought she liked him and he misread the situation n seemed remorseful but obviously nothing has changed.
he dated emi (kittis/kits) as we all know and she is 22 now and he should be 31 if he didn't lie about his age. they would have been 20 and 29 iirc. it's legal but it's up to you if you think that's immoral. i did find it odd at the time and expressed discomfort around the age gap.
he also confided in me about being accused of being pushy with a girl irl in his workplace which resulted in him losing the job. at the time he seemed to have proof to disprove he didnt do anything but now it got me reflecting what the truth of that was.
ill be honest anyone close friends w hazel has heard all of these allegations thru the years but it seems like now it is not being seen as isolated incidents or mistakes but more a pattern of behaviour. as an older woman my advice to any girls 18-22 to really think about why a man that age would be interested in you specifically and to keep yourself safe always
Oh wow. Thanks for your insight and thank you for trying to keep young women safe from this man.
