#kinkasks

hahahahahah oh boy. Ooooh boy. If I write E rated fic and someone doesn’t get spanked at least once, I’ve probably dropped out a paragraph in editing. Very much kinksame. Especially when pre-negotiated. (Once read a fic where a bossy masochist trained his partner on how to best spank him. Yummmm.) In fact, I have been kinkshamed on spanking in my own fucking bed, and since then I make sure at least my characters get to have all the fun I don’t. God bless fanfic. 

Also the bondage/Scratching/biting is half the reason I always love villain/hero pairings cause that shit happens quite often in those.

Heat, as in ABO verses you mean? Or any similar concept, like sex-pollen or aliens-made-them-do-it? I’d say vaguely kinkshame. I just don’t like the fuck-or-die aspect of it, it’s reeking of dubious consent and that’s nope for me. 

with the force-choking kink being practically canonised, I’d say kinksame (to an extent, namely, when it’s pre-negotiated - I think I get as much kick, if not more, from a character asking the other to be choked than from the subsequent choking:))

(Kissing is an exception, the skin of lips is so fragile that it’s awfully easy to draw blood when the kiss is anger-fueled.)

Kink-meh. I can absolutely see the appeal for the characters, when the setting is right. It just does absolute zero to me. I am even vaguely uncomfortable with the idea of restrained movement so... nope. 

Or things like body-shots, yeah. That can be sexy. But other than that, the whole whipped cream thing and so on, it’s more like kink-meh. Doesn’t work for me. 

Kink-dunno? I’ve never perceived this one as kink, honestly :) Unless it’s something like ritualised public claiming, which is very much nope nope kinkshame for me.