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Astrology notes written at 12:30pm lol ;)

👛Pisces Moon women tend to get very spiritual as they age, but it lowkey comes off contradictory because their energy be aggressive as hell , it just don’t match. Like one IG story is Jhene Aiko, incense, and moon water… next slide is them arguing or fighting somebody. No shade, just an observation.

👛Heavy 3rd house placements can be difficult to communicate with—not because they’re unintelligent, but because they tend to override conversations, miss subtext, or talk around the point. This can cause others to underestimate them or avoid relying on them. I’ve noticed this most strongly with Mars, Neptune, and Uranus in the 3rd, where communication becomes impulsive, confusing, or disruptive. Other planets here play out very differently depending on aspects.

👛Cancer women can be quiet competitors with other women, especially when they notice someone has something they deeply desire but feel they can’t access. This comparison can disrupt their emotional balance and turn into subtle resentment if unprocessed. It’s not always intentional, but it’s deeply tied to insecurity and unmet emotional needs.

👛Sagittarius mixed with Virgo can be a lot. From what I’ve observed, this combo tends to overanalyze and over-exaggerate situations until everything feels like a crisis. It can come off hypercritical or even “Karen-ish,” though it usually stems from anxiety rather than entitlement. These individuals are extremely sensitive to life in general and struggle with balance. Interestingly, I’ve also noticed recurring themes of physical depletion (like anemia or burnout) with this combo.

👛Capricorn placements reject people easily—not always out of arrogance, but because they’re rarely impressed by surface-level connection. Their standards are high, and basic interaction doesn’t move them emotionally. This often bothers others, who label them contrarian or cold. It’s especially pronounced when paired with 8th house placements or Libra energy, where others expect warmth or diplomacy and don’t get it.

👛Pluto in the 2nd house tends to swing between extreme money habits—either very disciplined or completely chaotic, sometimes both at once. I’ve noticed a tendency toward hoarding (objects, clothes, food, or even money itself). These people often spend impulsively on things they don’t actually need, yet somehow struggle to obtain the essentials. There’s also a subtle intensity to them that can make others uncomfortable without knowing why—this is especially noticeable with Scorpio influence in the 2nd. That discomfort can turn inward and create deep insecurities around self-worth. I’ve also observed struggles with eating or body-related issues, particularly when Pluto is joined by the Sun, Moon, Jupiter, or Uranus in the 2nd. Heavy emphasis on Pluto here amplifies all of this.

👛From patterns I’ve noticed, Libra, Aquarius, Capricorn, and Sagittarius Moons show up a lot in sugar baby, yacht, and OF spaces—especially with heavy 2nd, 6th, or 8th house energy. These Moons tend to separate emotions from survival and value, so transactional dynamics feel safer. Clear exchanges > emotional uncertainty. Structure gives them control, not commitment.

👛If a parent has Mercury in the 5th house, the child may show neurodivergent traits, unconventional learning styles, or early creative intelligence. Communication around play, self-expression, or emotional validation may have been inconsistent, which can shape how the child processes attention, creativity, or social cues later in life.

👛People with Ketu on the 1st/7th or 2nd/8th axis live in a constant state of déjà vu. Their life feels repetitive—not because they’re stuck, but because the lesson hasn’t landed yet. Same situations, different people, different costumes. They’re the friend whose life plays out like a Netflix series, then their FYP randomly starts explaining their exact experience through tarot, synchronicities, or astrology. It’s intense, exhausting, but also a blessing—once they trust their intuition, they become unstoppable.

Especially if they have a life path 5,7,8,9 or 22 ( ik very specific)

👛Sagittarius placements joke to avoid being emotionally cornered.

Laughing ≠ not serious.

👛Kanye West having Pluto in the 3rd house and Lilith in the 11th truly fits because Pluto in the 3rd often feels like the world is against you mentally. Your thoughts are louder than what you actually say or write, yet you still feel compelled to express them anyway, regardless of the backlash you know is coming. And the backlash does come—but never in the way you expect. Since Pluto rules trauma and power, people often act like what you say is out of pocket, disturbing, or too much, yet it always carries weight. They may reject it publicly, but later they remember it and realize how intelligent or ahead of its time it sounded. With the 3rd house ruling communication and social media, this placement often manifests online, where your expression can be polarizing and you may be labeled as “mentally unstable” or controversial (sometimes true, sometimes exaggerated). But as long as the expression feels authentic, you don’t care. Adding Lilith in the 11th only intensifies this—bringing even more backlash, rejection, and projection from groups, audiences, and communities.

👛4th house placements are highly susceptible to energetic intrusion. People often project onto them as “safe,” “naive,” or “emotionally stable,” which invites others to overstep boundaries. Because the 4th house is under the horizon, these natives are deeply private, but not obviously so. You don’t really know a 4th house person unless you live with them or become family—and even then, access is selective. The 4th house isn’t soft or easy; it’s protective, ancestral, and deeply guarded.

👛Taurus women (especially emphasized in the Big 3 or Lilith) can struggle with jealousy — not just romantically, but in friendships and family dynamics too.

This isn’t always loud jealousy; it can come out as subtle humiliation, comparison, or quiet resentment when someone has something they want or feel entitled to.

(Of course, aspects + maturity matter. This is more prominent when undeveloped.)

👛♋︎ ♏︎ ♓︎ Water sign men often act as instigators in drama — whether intentionally or unconsciously.

They’ll stir emotions, provoke reactions, and then deny involvement completely.

If you want the real story, don’t ask them — ask the person who actually felt it.

👛Aries Moon men

(especially at ♉︎, ♓︎, or ♋︎ degrees)

often have unresolved mother wounds and emotional volatility, but tend to deny it or deflect.

They struggle with rejection, take “no” personally, and can act entitled to access.

Everyone talks about ♏︎ being intolerable, but these placements can be just as unhinged when immature.

👛Pluto placements in general are not light work.

Pluto shows where trauma happens and where you can unconsciously traumatize others if you’re not self-aware. It’s heavy, obsessive, and extreme energy — kind of similar to asteroid Nessus (7066) in that sense.

Asteroid Nessus in the 3rd themes; manipulation, power imbalances, abuse cycles, and breaking them.

A lot of Nessus-dominant people were the black sheep of their family or community. You may have had groups of people who disliked you for no clear reason, felt scapegoated, or experienced people trying to brainwash you, control your thinking, criticize your voice, or twist your words.

Strong dislike for your hometown and a deep urge to move away is also common.

👛Not all Capricorn Venuses want older partners.

Some of us just want someone who’s mentally stable, not controlling, not manipulative, and not trying to brainwash us.

Same wavelength > “boring but safe” any day.

👛Virgo Moon women (underdeveloped) can be very easy to manipulate in relationships.

Overthinking, self-criticism, people-pleasing — bird brain behavior fr 🐦

Developed Virgo Moons are unstoppable but undeveloped ones can get played badly.

👛Mercury in Sagittarius at ♎︎, ♓︎, ♋︎, or ♉︎ degrees often isn’t taken seriously — and it’s weird because they’re not lying at all. It’s more like their tone throws people off. Something about how they speak makes others question them, even when they’re telling the truth. Because of that, they might stop fully expressing how they feel, since people shut them down for no real reason. Ironically, people love hearing them talk… until they actually say something real. Definitely gives “mocked when younger,” but everything they say hits later on. (House placement matters too.)

Placements don’t doom you, patterns do.

(self-awareness is the real dominant placement)

Astrology Observations…..Yeah

Lilith in the 10th house / Sun in the 4th

Can be closer with their dad than their mom. It doesn’t always indicate a bad relationship with the mom, but it can show a stronger connection with the father—shared interests, or just being around masculine energy that makes you feel more like yourself.

With Sun in the 4th, I also noticed this can show being the first to have a child that’s consistently in the spotlight. Whether it’s you putting them there or them naturally being the “golden child” (only child, oldest, miracle baby, etc).

The downside? Some parents feed off that attention and put the child on a pedestal because it makes them look good… meanwhile they’re not the best parent behind the scenes.

Image isn’t always reality.

Venus square Asc

These are the types that don’t like pictures unless they control it. Specific angles, filters, apps.

Might avoid social media completely or constantly change their aesthetic to the point their page feels inconsistent.

This aspect can actually make someone unforgettable… or dangerous.

People might like the fact , how private they are and it makes them look like a “ tease “ I even seen cases where people accused them of being a “ Catfish “ because they look like too good to be true .

Libra Rising (especially near Virgo) + Ketu in the 1st

People will say you look different every day. Hard to read, but somehow people are still intrusive about your life.

Politeness gets mistaken for access (it’s not).

People project identities onto you that you don’t resonate with.

You can come off standoffish, suspicious, or like you don’t need anyone.

Add Mars in the 8th and you naturally give mysterious energy without trying.

People are intrigued but don’t know why.

Shape-shifter placement fr.

Capricorn placements (unevolved) can be predatory.

I’ve seen this with control issues, boundary testing, obsession with status, and projecting their insecurities onto others.

People love to say Capricorn = “go-getter” or “daddy energy” but let’s be real… some of them are just miserable and controlling.

I also seen cases where they go for woman and usually get played badly because they have bad perception on what their ideal type is actually not their type yk ?

And a lot of the time? People around them lowkey want their downfall.

Realistically I can list aspects that really connect it all together but on the more simple but yet specific side I seen this with Capricorn men sun , moon , mars & asc

Virgo / Libra / Aries / Cancer placements (Sun, Moon, Rising, Mars) Jupiter in 1st/2nd , Mercury in 1st/2nd , Moon in 1st,2nd,4th , Mercury-asc aspect, Venus-asc aspects & Jupiter-asc aspects

Get comments about looking young (“baby face effect”).

It’s not always a compliment either.

People use it to infantilize them, talk down to them, or feel superior.

Certain placements I’ve noticed in people who get taken advantage of (especially by men):

Mars square Neptune

Sun opposite Mars

Mars in Taurus, Pisces, Virgo

Mars in 1st, 4th , 8th , 10th

Nessus in 1st, 4th, 6th, 12th

Lilith in 1st, 3rd, 11th, 12th( any Lilith but more emphasis on the asteroid , bml & h58( Waldemath)

Pluto in 1st, 3rd, 8th, 11th

This isn’t “all men are bad”—it’s a pattern of prolonged psychological damage, gaslighting, and cycles that take years to break.

I’ve seen it go as far as restraining orders, therapy, even mental breakdowns.

And the worst part?

The person who caused the damage often acts like nothing happened—and people believe them.

Example: Mars in Taurus

You come off sensual, slow-burning, elegant.

Some men interpret that as a challenge or tease, which leads to boundary pushing.

Comments like “you look toxic” or “I know what I’d do to you” type energy.

Lilith / Pluto in the 3rd

People don’t take you seriously or they sexualize everything you say.

You get labeled as “cute” in a patronizing way until you assert yourself—then suddenly you’re a problem.

Can lead to rumors, projection, and people being intimidated but not admitting it.

You’re energy here is very raw and people can be intimidated but fascinated with the idea of you but won’t admit it because the energy you have here shouldn’t be trusted easily because you say things that can come off as angry or unreliable.

Aries Sun women

Give Lilith in the 1st energy. ( I’m not saying they all have Lilith in the 1st but it screams that … Unevolved ofc )

Seen as bold, impulsive, mean, bit**y , but that side usually comes out toward people they feel threatened by.

Very good at image management.

Can switch personalities depending on the audience.

And yes… they will compete with you even if you’re not competing.

Regardless if you find yourself cool or not . That Aries sun will still find a way to be in competition with you and at some point it will get draining as hell .

Leo Moon / Mars

Tend to neglect themselves when they’re focused on a partner.

All the attention goes outward instead of inward.

I’ve seen this lead to insecurity, anger, or even narcissistic tendencies.

They need validation BAD, but don’t always realize when they’re not being treated well until someone else points it out.

Can also be overly focused on other people’s bodies while neglecting their own.

And in groups?

They’re usually the “leader” and others follow their behavior—even when it’s questionable.

Awareness isn’t for everyone

Astro observations pt. ii — the beauty in your chaos ✦

⚠️Ketu in 1H/12H — your soul is tired. You attract people who want to understand you, but your energy says “don’t even try.” You’ve lived too many lives to care about being perceived correctly.

⚠️Chiron in the 4th or 10th — you’re haunted by the idea of being seen the wrong way. Family made you hide parts of yourself, the world made you monetize them.

⚠️Lilith in the 11th — you’re not “misunderstood,” you’re too real for fake community energy. People project jealousy then call you dramatic.

⚠️Neptune–Mercury aspects — you talk like a poem and lie like a prayer. It’s not manipulation, it’s survival through performance.

⚠️Mars square or opposite Sun

It’s not anger issues — it’s a war between wanting to be seen and wanting control. You walk into a room and shift the air pressure without saying a word.

⚠️Asteroid Chaos (19521) aspecting Mercury or Moon

You don’t start drama; your words do. You speak in energy, not sentences, and people project emotions onto your tone.

⚠️Pluto in the 3rd: words hit like spells — they’ll say one thing that echoes in your head for months.

⚠️When a Cancer finally hardens, it’s not bitterness — it’s self-respect.

Cancer placements feel everything, even what’s unsaid. That’s why they need solitude — their empathy gets overstimulated.

⚠️Libra Rising: They read rooms like mirrors—adjusting tone, posture, even silence to stay adored. Charm is their armor; beauty is their diplomacy. Everyone feels seen, yet no one really sees them.

⚠️Scorpio Risings swear they’re mysterious and magnetic—but half the time it’s just resting suspicion face and good lighting. The real magnetism isn’t their “dark aura,” it’s how people project danger onto their silence. They’re not the hottest—they just look like a plot twist.

⚠️Venus square Ascendant: Their beauty isn’t the neat, filtered kind—it’s unintentional chaos that works. They dress for rebellion, not approval, and somehow pull it off. Compliments make them flinch because they don’t feel beautiful, they perform it.

⚠️Juno square Moon: Wants emotional security but keeps choosing chaos—it feels more real that way.

⚠️ Prominent Mars (1st, 5th, 8th, 10th): They don’t chase attention, they provoke it. People project lust, envy, and challenge onto them. Men read their confidence as consent—it’s not. Their aura says “touch fire and see what happens.”

⚠️Virgo Risings: The real slow burn—quiet, observant, and way hotter once you notice the details. They’re not overlooked because they’re plain—they’re overlooked because they don’t perform. Their glow isn’t loud, it’s earned.

⚠️5th house placements: They romanticize everything—pain, people, moments. Even chaos becomes a story worth telling. They crave intensity disguised as “fun,” and when life gets too quiet, they’ll stir it just to feel the spark again.

⚠️4th house placements: Easily the most mysterious—so private it makes people assume they’re safe to overshare with. Strangers unload secrets, thinking they won’t be judged—but trust, they’re silently analyzing everything. Their calm vibe is the lock; their mind is the vault.

⚠️12th house placements: Always a little out of sync with the world—late bloomers, lone wolves, or both. Chiron here carries wounds too abstract to explain, so they just turn inward. Sleep is their escape and reset; mentally drained but somehow still running on soul-battery.

⚠️10th house placements: Just because you’ve got planets up there doesn’t mean fame’s waiting at your doorstep. It’s visibility, not a VIP pass. You still have to build the legacy—those placements just make sure everyone’s watching while you do it.

⚠️Chiron aspecting the Ascendant: There’s a softness in their face that reads like sadness—it’s not misery, it’s depth. Even when they smile, it looks like they’ve lived through something. In the 1st house, that weight shows; people can feel it before they know them. It’s the kind of beauty that hurts a little.

⚠️Virgo energy wants perfection, but secretly falls for chaos—it gives them purpose.

⚠️Sagittarius Mercury: Always off topic, doesn’t even realize it. Laugh you can hear across the room — unmistakable. Ghosts mid-conversation, comes back three hours later with something completely unrelated like nothing happened. Somehow still the funniest one there.

⚠️Ascendant aspecting Saturn / Venus in Capricorn / Venus rising / heavy Cap or Aqua placements:

Late bloomer energy. Life said “not yet” just so your glow-up would hit like divine timing. Age like revenge. Unrecognizable. Hot asf — but it’s the quiet kind that makes people stare.

⚠️Uranus in the 6th:

You either do everything at once or absolutely nothing for three days straight. Routines last a week max before you reinvent your whole schedule at 3 a.m. You call it “flexible structure,” everyone else calls it “what the hell is going on.”

⚠️Sagittarius Venus:

Flirts with everyone, commits to no one. Says “I need freedom” like it’s a valid excuse for ghosting.

⚠️ Mars in Libra:

Can’t handle conflict but somehow creates it. Apologizes before you even argue.

⚠️2nd house placements:

Emotionally attached to objects that “have memories.” Translation: won’t throw away that hoodie from 2017 because it’s seen too much.

⚠️Capricorn placements (Specifically Sun) will side-eye peace like it’s suspicious. “You’re happy? how?” The grind became a personality trait and now they don’t know who they are without it.

⚠️Industria (389) aspecting Saturn or MC — silent worker energy. You’re not chasing clout, but clout accidentally finds you when you mind your business too efficiently.

⚠️Saturn in the 11th / aspecting Uranus

The influencer curse: everyone sees you as “that person,” but you’re painfully aware of how isolating it is to be known.

⚠️Venus conjunct Paine: It can give tremendous empathy and emotional depth, especially artistically — like channeling pain into art, beauty, writing, or expression.

⚠️Juno square Ascendant — a slight tension between your relationship persona and how you come across individually. Sometimes people may see you as very independent even when you long for deep partnership, or vice versa. It can also mean relationships change how you present yourself.

⚠️Eros square Ascendant gives you undeniable magnetism, but it can also make your erotic energy feel “too much” for some people — it’s intense, raw, and noticeable even when you don’t mean it to be

⚠️Mars in Taurus — the anger issues are real, but it’s not rage — it’s frustration that people move slower than your vision. You don’t blow up over small things, you blow up when people don’t get it.

⚠️Venus in the 12th: secret lovers, secret longings, secret heartbreaks — no one ever really knows what love did to them.

astrology isn’t real but my breakdowns line up perfectly, so idk.

Astro observations pt. iii — the art of being misunderstood

🍭Lilith Conjunct Moon

The Moon wants safety and nurture, but Lilith wants autonomy and raw honesty. Together, they create an internal tug-of-war: soft vs. untamed, comfort vs. exposure.

People with this aspect might:

• feel both drawn to and threatened by “feminine” expression,

• attract situations where their emotional power is sexualized or punished,

• carry ancestral or maternal shame around womanhood or caretaking.

That’s why the “other woman” archetype shows up — it’s not moral failure, it’s magnetism that forces hidden dynamics into view.

🍭 Moon Conjunct Chiron

This one aches quietly. The Moon is emotional nourishment; Chiron marks the wound that never fully heals.

When they meet, childhood care patterns replay throughout life. Often:

• the person parented their parent or felt emotionally responsible for them;

• vulnerability feels unsafe or embarrassing;

• nostalgia becomes self-soothing but also self-sabotaging.

It’s not bipolar — it’s emotional flashbacks, old pain revisiting through new moods.

The gift: these natives radiate empathy that makes others feel seen, because they know what invisible pain feels like.

🍭 asteroid nessus(7066)-

wherever nessus sits is where you’ve been abused and where you might unconsciously project that pain. people with nessus in the 1st house often get bullied or picked apart, especially for their looks. it’s heartbreaking, because they end up hating themselves but still crave validation — they’ll bring up times they were hurt because they just want someone to care. they’re not trying to be victims; they were made into one and are trying to rewrite that story.

🍭 asteroid Karma (3811) — the echo placement. what you’ve done and what’s been done to you loop here until you face it differently. it’s not punishment, it’s repetition. same lesson, new face, until you stop running from the reflection.

• in the 6th house: karmic loops in work, health, and service. the people you “help” often mirror what you avoid healing in yourself. burnout = the universe saying “you can’t save others from what you won’t confront.”

🍭 people with 0° placements are loud without meaning to be.

it’s fresh energy — like the universe just handed them that archetype and said, “figure it out.”

you can tell when someone’s a 0° Aquarius rising… it’s raw, unfiltered, like they’re still learning how to wear that sign.

it gives “i just spawned here” energy but somehow they still ate.

🍭 asteroid fox (especially in the 10th)

people underestimate you until they realize you’ve been three steps ahead the whole time. you play dumb like it’s strategy, because it is.

🍭 3rd house placements:

the mind is loud here. a stellium or malefic planets in the 3rd = mental health rollercoaster. talk to yourself, write it down, record your thoughts. it helps. also, this house rules tech — so maybe your notes app is your therapist. oh, and if you’ve got mars or pluto there: stop speeding(No shade :)

🍭 family astrology tip:

if you don’t believe in astrology, pull your family’s charts. you’ll find at least one repeating element or sign — especially with siblings or parents. for example:

• scorpio sun, pisces moon, cancer rising

• sagittarius sun, virgo moon, scorpio rising

see? the emotional pattern runs in the family.

🍭 ketu on the ascendant

these natives are chronically online. like, multiple burner accounts, arguing in comment sections, ghosting, coming back, deleting, repeating. it’s the detachment + karmic overstimulation combo — they’ve lived too many lives to stay silent in this one. they project their past-life confusion into digital spaces, it’s wild but makes sense.

🍭 Asteroid Nemesis (128) in the 11th house:

You don’t hate what’s popular—you hate watching what you loved get diluted. You liked it before the crowd made it corny. Nemesis in the 11th is the “too authentic for the algorithm” placement—admired, copied, and rarely credited. The curse of being the blueprint.

🍭 Capricorn Rising:

Lowkey instigators when evolved (and who said instigating was bad? lol , They’re observant, sarcastic, and honestly funnier than people give them credit for. Not as heavy as Scorpio risings—more dry humor, more “I saw that coming” energy. They hate being perceived but somehow always are. Chronic overthinkers with main character anxiety. Makes sense though—the 10th house is Capricorn-ruled, so they’re born to stand out even when they don’t want to. Super attractive when evolved, but that glow-up takes time (Saturn doesn’t rush perfection). People call them stoic or dark, but that’s just the unevolved version—evolved Cap risings are calm storms with a killer sense of humor.

🍭 Libra Moon:

You’re either talking about men 24/7 or playing the “everything’s about me” role—both valid but exhausting. You were probably called “too grown” or “extra” as a kid. Blame your Scorpio Moon in sidereal (only applies if you have a late degree) there’s darker energy under that charm. You crave peace but attract tension, and honestly, you can be a quiet critic when bored. The type to dissect everyone else’s mess instead of facing your own emotional storm.

🍭 Aquarius Moon:

Detached? Nah—just overstimulated. They care so deeply it fries their circuits. Aquarius, Capricorn, and Sagittarius Moons are the emotional “dad went to get milk” types—they’ll disappear, check back in just to see if things still feel the same, then dip again. It’s not coldness, it’s preservation. They learned early that peace means distance, and once they outgrow something, they don’t circle back—they just orbit it from afar.

🍭 Virgo Mercury:

I hate pop astrology takes on this one—“overthinker,” “perfectionist,” whatever. The truth is they just need time to process because they absorb everything. They’ll have ten tabs open, five notebooks half full, and still need to pause and dissect every detail before they move on. They don’t just listen—they analyze. Sagittarius, Aquarius, and Pisces Mercuries can’t keep up, not because they’re slow, but because they jump topics mid-sentence while Virgo’s still unpacking the first one.

🍭 Jupiter in the 9th — blind faith, expensive lessons.

Everyone calls it “the lucky one,” but no one mentions how easy it is to mistake adventure for purpose. You chase meaning like it’s oxygen—every trip, every heartbreak has to teach you something. The dark side? Preaching before you’ve healed, mistaking experience for wisdom. You’ll call it growth, but sometimes it’s just ego with a passport.

🍭 asteroid lie(26955)

wherever Lie sits, you lie to protect your peace — and where others lie to you. for example, if it’s in your 8th house, people might hide secrets, money, or emotions from you. it’s not always malicious, sometimes they just can’t face your intensity.

🍭 Sun in the 7th:

your identity gets wrapped up in relationships — it’s like you can’t see yourself until someone else reflects it back. you either date people who dim your light or who make you obsessed with proving you have one.

🍭 2nd house vs. 8th house — comfort vs. combustion

The 2nd wants peace, the 8th wants power. One builds, the other destroys. It’s giving “soft life, but I keep attracting storms.” You crave stability, yet transformation follows you like a shadow — maybe you were never meant to stay still.

🍭Asteroid Sirene (1009) in the 1st — beauty that feels like a warning.

People don’t just notice you—they react to you. Sirene in the 1st walks into a room and stirs things you didn’t mean to touch. Your presence hums with temptation and threat, like something beautiful that might ruin them. It’s not performance—it’s instinct. You carry the kind of allure people name danger because they don’t understand power that doesn’t apologize.

🍭 Asteroid Lust (4386) conjunct or near Candy (3015):

Seduction with a sugar coating. It’s playful, teasing energy that makes desire look effortless. You don’t chase indulgence—you embody it, like pleasure rebranded as art.

Desserts That Flirt Back: Venus x Mars Edition

Everyone’s got a sweet side, a soft spot, and a flavor that ruins people just enough to keep them coming back.

These desserts aren’t just snacks—they’re archetypes. Venus-blessed, Mars-stirred, craving certified 💋

💋 Slutty Brownies

Scorpio Venus ,Mars in the 8th - Layers on layers. It’s sweet, dark, a little dangerous—people swear they can handle it, then can’t. Forbidden pleasure in dessert form.

💋 Cotton Candy Ice Cream

Aquarius Venus , Mars in 1st (In Aquarius)

Weirdly addictive—you can’t explain why, but you’re hooked.

They love like it’s an experiment: electric, free, and gone before you notice.

Elusive? Maybe. But somehow, you still crave another taste.

💋 Rice Krispie Treats

Gemini Venus ,3rd house Venus -Simple but nostalgic. You flirt through humor and comfort, not flash. Everyone underestimates you until they realize you’re addicting.

💋 Churros

Sagittarius Venus - Wild, messy, fun. You smell like cinnamon and rebellion. You’re everyone’s “bad idea” they secretly wish would text them again.

💋 Fruit Rolled Ice Cream

Leo or Libra Venus- Looks matter—presentation is the love language. Flirty, fun, takes time to make but worth the show. “Aesthetic soft launch” energy.

💋 Funfetti Cinnamon Rolls

Cancer Venus- Soft, sentimental, and chaotic good. You heal people by feeding them sugar and validation. The “I baked you something” love language.

💋 Tiramisu

Venus in the 4th — elegance with a secret. You love deeply but reveal it in layers. You look calm, but your soul flirts in espresso and revenge.

💋 S’mores

Aries Mars , in the crave warmth but always end up setting something on fire. Flirt like it’s survival, love like it’s an adventure. You’re messy, magnetic, and impossible to forget—people always come back for one more taste, even when they know they’ll get burned

💋 Strawberry Shortcake

Venus in the 5th -romanticized reality. You make everyday life look like a montage scene. People project softness onto you, but you’re the one setting the tone.

💋 Donuts (Lemon Poppy)

Virgo Venus , Libra mars - Understated, classic, but when you pay attention—you notice the detail. Sweet, grounded, “you’ll miss me when I’m gone” flavor.

💋 Sugar Cookie :(Target ones , the one everyone hates lol ):

Pisces Venus, 12th house Venus - Everyone claims they hate it, but somehow eats two. Childlike, comforting, and slightly tragic—like sweetness you didn’t believe you deserved.

💋 Dubai chocolate (with angel hair)

Capricorn Venus ,Venus in the 1st - Luxury, restraint, and quiet seduction. You don’t show your sweetness—you let people earn it. Expensive taste, soft heart, dangerous calm.

💋 Cheesecake Deviled Strawberries

Taurus Mars - Looks romantic, tastes sinful. It’s all about temptation and presentation—half dessert, half dare.

💋 Tanghulu

Aquarius Venus ,Venus in the 8th house — sharp-sweet duality. You pull people in with aesthetic perfection, then leave them rethinking their decisions. Icy, precise, irresistible.

💋 Little Bites Muffins

2nd House Venus , Mars in Cancer - soft launch luxury. you’re not flashy, you’re irresistible by accident. people crave your calm, your warmth, your “come over, I baked something” energy. you make comfort look like seduction — it’s the bite-sized sweetness that lingers longer than it should.

💋 Three-Layer Cake

7th house Venus , Mars in Capricorn - you love in layers — presentation, substance, then soul. people fall for the surface first (you always look put together), but the real sweetness is underneath. you crave balance, not games; partnership that feels earned, not performed. there’s a maturity to your charm — frosting outside, foundation inside.

So… are you the sugar rush, the slow burn, or the one they never stop craving?

Astrology Observations with Bite 🩰

TW~ food, Eating themes & Fantasies

🧖🏽‍♀️Piercing / Tattoo Astro Observations🩰

🩰Capricorn placements (especially risings) should get an industrial piercing. Capricorns tend to have very defined, almost elf-like ears (lowkey one of their best features), and the industrial really enhances that sharp, structured look.

🧖🏽‍♀️Cancer placements — and Cancer Mars especially — are very nipple-piercing coded. Cancer is mommy energy , the chest ( boobs ) . It fits the placement way more often than people want to admit.

🩰Leo placements (Sun/Mars), Mars–Saturn aspects, Mars in the 6th or 1st are back-tattoo people. Leo rules strength, pride, and the upper body — these placements usually have a naturally strong , upper dominant body so back tattoos just work .

🧖🏽‍♀️Libra placements either have a lot of tattoos or none at all — no in between. If they do get tattoos, hip or under-butt placements look insane on them. Libra rules symmetry, hips, and balance… and yes, the bum lol.

🩰Gemini Venus / heavy Gemini placements are very sleeve-tat coded. Gemini rules the arms and hands, but I do notice a lot of individuals with Gemini Venus always have a sleeve . Sometimes it can look overpowering so that’s usually the first thing you notice about them .

🧖🏽‍♀️Moon in the 4th house people go through way more than you’d ever expect because they’re extremely private. Their lives are unpredictable — mood swings, living situations, body changes (physically and environmentally). Especially loud if the Moon aspects the ASC, Chiron, Mars, Neptune, or Uranus. You don’t really know a 4th house Moon until you live with them or watch them adapt in real time.

Mercury–Voice Astro Observation

🩰Mercury conjunct Pluto (especially in draconic), Mercury & Pluto in the 3rd, Mercury square Uranus, or Mercury in Sagittarius — natal or draconic — almost always get comments about their voice. Heavy tone, strong accent, or people constantly asking “where are you from?” even when you’re literally from here . It’s not that you sound fake — it’s that your voice carries weight. People feel something behind your words.

🧖🏽‍♀️Adding Jupiter in the 2nd house amplifies this even more since the 2nd also rules the voice. Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter (foreignness, philosophy, travel), so the voice can sound “not local” or larger than life. If you have any of these placements/aspects — what’s your experience?

Speaking of Jupiter in the 2nd house needs to be talked about more. I hate when people only associate appearance with the 1st house when it’s really 1st + 2nd together. Jupiter-2nd individuals often get told they look like they’re from an ethnicity they’re not… and yes, eating habits come up too lol. Jupiter in the 1st or 2nd does not automatically mean someone is fat — aspects matter, especially Venus.

For example…….

🩰Venus conjunct/square/opposite Jupiter → indulgence may show earlier in life.

🧖🏽‍♀️Venus sextile/trine Jupiter → indulgence shows later.

It’s really about mindfulness, not punishment

Degrees matter. A lot.

🩰I have my Sun at 15° and Mars at 15° (Gemini degree), with Mars retrograde in Taurus in the 8th. I’m a slow burner, but when I’m mad? I’ll put someone on blast LOLLLL. The amount of conflicts I’ve had — especially online — because I let anger talk first is embarrassing, like I talk so much mess about people but I’ll laugh while doing it truly sometimes you gotta watch what you say tho . but the thrill is great honestly. It still takes a lot to get me there though… blame Sagittarius Mercury as well .

🧖🏽‍♀️Taurus Mars is sneakier than people admit. Their sister sign is Scorpio for a reason. They don’t react immediately — that doesn’t mean they aren’t processing. They store it. Then days, weeks, months later… they bite back harder and when you least expect it. And that’s when they get called dramatic, bipolar, or liars because “they can’t let it go.” Taurus holds grudges. Be serious. But that’s not only from my personal experience but from observations as well .

TW :(

🩰Lilith in the 2nd house can indicate food control or food shame in childhood. Think being the kid who couldn’t eat what everyone else was eating ( wether it was pizza , Oreos , or candy ) These individuals usually had their lunch bag packed with strictly organic foods or snacks — often raised around almond moms, gym-obsessed relatives, vegetarians, or people projecting their insecurities onto them. It puts the Lilith-2nd person on a pedestal they never asked for. This is also common with heavy 2nd house energy and Chiron in the 6th. It’s not your fault, even if it sticks with you.

🩰 I have my Sun in the 2nd house, and growing up, food was always around me. I had family members who worked at different food places, so eating was constant and unrestricted. Because of that, I never really developed clear boundaries around food.

When I was younger, people would make jokes about my eating habits, which stuck with me more than I realized at the time. Over time, that environment also contributed to certain health issues. I played a lot of sports growing up, so it was easy to manage — movement balanced things out. But once you stop moving your body, you’re often forced to confront what was already there.

This placement also shows up for me as health anxiety. I’m very sensitive to food-related environments — I hate hearing people eat, watching people eat, or eating around others in general. It’s less about food itself and more about control, awareness, and the body holding memory.

TW ~ idealized Tendencies

🩰Placements like Moon square Pluto, Moon square Venus, Venus square ASC, Lilith conjunct or quincunx Moon Pisces moon , Cancer Mars, Mars in Leo, Virgo Moon, Taurus Sun/Moon/Rising, or Lilith contacts often show admiration mixed with envy toward younger women. Not in a weird way — more like unresolved comparison. It’s the tension between who they wanted to be vs. who they became. I notice this a lot in older charts (late 30s+) and celebrity charts too.

🩰Leo Sun men — especially with a Gemini Venus — crave validation bad. I’ve known Leo Sun men with surprisingly low self-esteem, constantly needing approval from everyone around them. A lot of them grow up surrounded by men, which pushes them toward hyper-masculinity and makes it harder for them to connect with femininity in a genuine way.

They love to lean into the “I’m a good guy” persona — which is funny, because no one said you were bad. But the way you communicate can come off… very hoe-ish. Like why are you asking someone you just met to rate you from 1–10?? Be serious

🧖🏽‍♀️Alabama Barker’s chart explains why people project so heavily onto her. Capricorn Sun gets reputation scrutiny, Libra Moon + Taurus Mars amplifies aesthetics, charm, and pleasure — which attracts attention.Whether people like it or not, these placements often attract what they want — but the boundaries can blur. A Libra Moon prioritizes politeness and harmony, sometimes at the expense of discernment, which can make interactions feel surface-level or confusing to others. That’s where the “fake” or “leading people on” narrative can come from — though we don’t actually know her personally, so this is purely observational.

🩰Venus conjunct Chiron (exact) paired with Mars square Neptune is especially heavy. These are aspects I often see in charts where someone experiences betrayal, projection, and misplaced blame — being hurt, then painted as the problem. Mars–Neptune can make others feel entitled to project fantasies onto her, then react negatively when reality doesn’t match the image they created. It can also attract obsessive or disrespectful behavior, regardless of her intentions.

And with themes of inconsistency tied to the maternal bond and a stronger identification with the father figure, a lot of this makes sense astrologically. Add a Sagittarius Mercury and… yeah. No wonder she’s always online ( specifically on live ) saying exactly what’s on her mind .

A little more grace won’t hurt she’s still evolving just like the rest of us :)

For educational (and emotional) purposes only.

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Side note ;)

If your Black Moon Lilith doesn’t fully click for you, check your asteroid Lilith (1181) instead. Sometimes that’s where the story actually lives. Other asteroids as well ( which I will talk about in future posts :)

You can calculate it on https://www.astro.com/horoscope or https://www.astro-seek.com/

Lilith in the 1st — too real to filter.

3rd house Mars ,Pluto, Lilith , Asteroid Lust — unhinged mouth-to-thought ratio. Maybe even Mercury square Uranus , Sagittarius Mercury — say-it-first, think-later syndrome.

Aries Moon men trying to flirt but end up making you uncomfortable — like you wanna laugh but also… blink twice , Especially with Virgo Placements , confident, corny, and chaotic in the same breath.

And Lilith in the 2nd… please. That’s “I’ll do anything to please you” energy. The voice, the indulgence, the temptation. It’s giving pleasure as power, and it fits a little too perfectly 🫣

Astro Film Theory: The Placements That Write the Movies You Can’t Forget

[Viewer Discretion Advised — Contains Explicit & Mature Themes]

Some movies don’t just tell stories—they expose placements.

The ones that hit too close, that feel like your chart is being screened in real time.

These aren’t films, they’re birth charts unraveling in 4K.

Let’s decode them.

🫥Get Out — Pluto in the 4th, Saturn in the 8th

Colonized ancestry. Pluto in the 4th makes the past a prison; Saturn in the 8th forces survival through fear. His body isn’t his anymore—it’s a generational experiment.

🫥Joker — Sagittarius Moon, Chiron in the 5th, Mars in the 6th

Existence as protest. Sag Moon seeks meaning in madness, Chiron in the 5th turns laughter into pain relief. Mars in the 6th is the grind that kills compassion. Society made him sick, then mocked the symptoms.

🫥 Burlesque — Leo Lilith, Pisces Midheaven

Visibility as vengeance. Leo Lilith reclaims the stage they told her she didn’t deserve. Pisces MC turns her performance into prophecy—pain that looks like glitter. She didn’t find fame, she became it.

🫥 What Happened to Monday — Aquarius Stellium, Saturn in the 1st

Individuality under surveillance. Aquarius placements scream freedom, but Saturn in the 1st forces conformity. Seven faces, one identity—it’s the system’s cruel joke on autonomy.

🫥 Phone Booth — Mercury square Pluto, Saturn in the 3rd

Confession under pressure. Mercury–Pluto exposes the rot in your words; Saturn in the 3rd makes every sentence a verdict. He’s not negotiating with a sniper—he’s answering to his own guilt.

🫥 Hypnotic (Netflix) — Neptune conjunct Mercury, Chiron in the 12th

Healing turned haunting. Neptune–Mercury bends words into control, while Chiron in the 12th lets her pain be studied like a specimen. Vulnerability becomes hypnosis when empathy’s a trap.

🫥 The Menu — Pluto in the 2nd, Chiron in the 2nd, Capricorn undertones

Mastery gone rancid. Pluto in the 2nd clings to value until it chokes it. Chiron adds the ache of being consumed by what you create. It’s the artist who realizes devotion and resentment taste the same.

🫥 Luckiest Girl Alive — Cancer Midheaven, Sun square Saturn

She carries her past like proof. Cancer MC hides the ache behind ambition; Sun square Saturn makes every success feel like survival. Her silence wasn’t submission—it was strategy.

🫥 Bad Teacher — Venus square Jupiter, Lilith in the 6th

Pleasure over duty. Venus–Jupiter squares crave comfort, luxury, shortcuts—anything that makes life bigger, easier, louder. Lilith in the 6th rejects the grind entirely—she’s allergic to expectations and only shows up when there’s something in it for her. Underneath the sarcasm though, there’s a woman who’s just tired of pretending effort equals worth.

🫥 Silver Linings Playbook — Lilith in the 7th, Venus conjunct Chiron

Love through damage, not despite it. Lilith in the 7th refuses to be the “nice girl,” and Venus–Chiron makes every connection an act of exposure. They don’t fix each other—they mirror the parts that were never safe to show. This is what healing actually looks like: messy, triggering, and human.

🫥 Ready or Not — Aries Mars in the 8th, Saturn in the 4th

A bloodline test disguised as a wedding night. Mars in the 8th says: survival is inherited, not taught. Saturn in the 4th adds generational rot—tradition as punishment. She’s the first woman in that family to turn victimhood into vengeance.

🫥 Queen & Slim — Venus conjunct Mars in Scorpio, Pluto in the 7th

Love as rebellion, intimacy as war. Venus–Mars in Scorpio burns for meaning, not safety. Pluto in the 7th turns “us” into “against the world.” It’s not romance—it’s legacy forged through tragedy.

🫥 The Girl Next Door (2004) — Venus square Uranus, Neptune in the 5th

Desire that shocks itself. Venus–Uranus is instant attraction that feels like danger and freedom at once. Neptune in the 5th glamorizes it—love as illusion, innocence as marketing. It’s the fantasy of connection that collapses the second you touch it.

🫥 Prisoners — Pluto in the 8th, Mars square Saturn, Moon square Pluto

When protection turns into punishment. Pluto in the 8th lives where morality dies—grief becomes ritual, control becomes comfort. Mars square Saturn gives the trapped, frantic energy of someone who can’t act without consequence. Moon square Pluto is the emotional rot that grows under duty. He doesn’t want justice—he wants the universe to hurt like he does.

🫥 Easy A- Neptune in the 3rd, Lilith in the 11th

The rumor that became religion. Neptune in the 3rd distorts truth through words—say something once, and it grows fangs. Lilith in the 11th teaches her to own the lie so no one else can weaponize it.

🫥The Call — Chiron in the 6th, Moon square Pluto

Empathy as torment. Chiron in the 6th turns duty into guilt; Moon–Pluto replays trauma like it’s a job requirement. She saves others while slowly disintegrating herself.

🫥Level 16 — Virgo Stellium, Venus square Saturn

Cleanliness as control, obedience as armor. Virgo placements here represent survival through perfection. Venus square Saturn—the girls crave approval but fear it at the same time. They’ve been told to be good, to be silent, to earn safety. It’s not discipline, it’s a trauma response mistaken for grace.

🫥 Coraline — Moon square Neptune, Saturn in the 4th

Escapism as defense. Moon–Neptune can’t always tell what’s safe, just what feels magical. Saturn in the 4th adds the cold parents, the loneliness, the craving for warmth in dangerous places. Coraline just wanted to be seen—Neptune gave her a trap that looked like love.

🫥 8. The Truman Show — Sun square Neptune, Uranus in the 1st

A life that isn’t yours but looks perfect on camera. Sun–Neptune blurs identity; Uranus in the 1st starts revolutions just by existing. Everyone’s watching, but no one sees you.

🫥 Beauty and the Beast — Libra rising, Capricorn 4th, Cancer Lilith, 6th & 9th house themes

Love as restoration, not rescue. Libra rising craves harmony; Capricorn roots learned affection through effort. Cancer Lilith hides its softness behind pride. The 6th wants to fix, the 9th wants to believe. Two people teaching each other that vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the doorway back to love.

🫥 Tangled — Sagittarius Lilith, Aries Moon, Gemini rising, 9th & 12th house energy

Curiosity as rebellion. Sagittarius Lilith aches for freedom but gets labeled reckless for dreaming. Aries Moon fights the cage before it even knows the way out. Gemini rising keeps it light, but that 12th house isolation runs deep. The world calls it defiance—she calls it finally breathing.

🫥 Jennifer’s Body — Lilith in the 1st, Sun opposite Ascendant, 8th house stellium

Pretty turned predator, but not by choice. Lilith in the 1st is the girl they ruin, then fear for surviving it. The 8th house rebirth comes with blood on her hands — not revenge, just aftermath. Sun opposite Asc makes her reflection feel like an accusation. She wanted to feel untouchable; instead, she became unforgettable.

🫥 Trust (2010) — Pisces Venus, Mars square Neptune, Neptune in the 8th, Chiron in the 3rd, Moon–Pluto aspects

Naivety mistaken for safety. Pisces Venus wants to believe; Mars square Neptune blurs the lines between affection and manipulation. Neptune in the 8th hides cruelty behind charm, while Chiron in the 3rd turns every word into a wound. Moon–Pluto learns what it means to rebuild from something you never asked for. Innocence doesn’t return—it transforms into wisdom no one should have to earn.

🫥 Blink Twice (2024) — Venus in the 8th, Neptune conjunct Ascendant, Pluto square Lilith

It starts like paradise, ends like a warning. Venus in the 8th wants intimacy that feels like reincarnation—until it turns into possession. Neptune rising glamorizes the cage, makes control look like care. Pluto square Lilith burns underneath it all—power games, pleasure as rebellion, beauty as survival. You don’t escape the fantasy; you outgrow it.

🫥 Wonder (2017) — Cancer Sun, Pisces Moon, Chiron in the 1st, Venus trine Neptune

Softness as resistance. Cancer Sun forgives even when it shouldn’t. Pisces Moon feels everything all at once, turns pain into empathy. Chiron in the 1st carries visibility as a wound; Venus–Neptune believes love can heal what cruelty exposed. It’s not about being seen—it’s about being understood.

🫥 Don’t Worry Darling

Neptune in the 7th — where love becomes illusion. Relationships blur between fantasy and reality, built on projection instead of truth.

2nd house placements chase safety in what looks stable — luxury, affection, belonging — even when it costs them authenticity.

Air risings perform the ideal partner, keeping up appearances until the mask fractures.

When the illusion fades, so does the comfort. She wakes up — and the dream collapses with her.