"It is quite something to spend your entire life feeling like you are somehow out of place. And then to meet somehow who understands you before you even say a word. Someone whose singular qualities match your own. Whose kindness makes you feel warm. Who can read your mind from across a whole room. John was more than my husband, he was my truest friend. And I may ache at present, but... the good John brought into my life, that bond, that understanding, love, far outweighs any pain I feel right now. I would not change it. For anything. To my husband."















