#john hadley

I'm gonna talk about this more in my eventual essay about Thirteen and her dad and what canon gives us about them. But I would genuinely bet money that ever since she refused to go and say goodbye to her mom, her dad has held it against her that when she can't handle something, she's incredibly avoidant about it. The anger in his voice when he bangs on her door and tells her "You're gonna regret this the rest of your life"... that's not something either of them would just forget. The amount of arguments I can picture between her and her dad (during canon and about canon events, and otherwise) with her dad calling back to that and saying, You always do this, you're always running away, is... very much greater than zero.