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Oh gosh, you got it too huh? I expressed disappointment in Jared once and I got the same reaction from people: âplease keep your hate out of the Jared tag.â Only in the SPN fandom does disappointment = hate. I wish people would stop flipping out so much. Apparently you have to agree with everything an actor does to even express an opinion. smhâŚ
I really am/was disappointed in the way society has shifted and itâs now okay to publicly call out/shame a business on SM, and I used Jaredâs tweet as an example. Heâs tweeted that he accepted Favorâs apology - which is awesome both because they apologized and Jared responded in kind.
Thereâs no hate here, not from me. I simply wanted to know if his behaviour is normal for this generation or what. From the sounds of things it is. One person even commented saying something like âeveryone does itâ.....to which I can say with absolute assurance: I donât. Iâve never used SM to get a company to respond to my complaint. Never. And I have had some major complaints. But theyâve always been resolved by me contacting the person in charge. So I thought maybe Iâm just old and I do things the old fashioned way - lol!
But really, disappointment isnât hate. Disagreeing with a celebrityâs choice isnât hate. I still like Jared, Iâm just not really comfortable with his actions in how he used SM to shame a company into getting resolution. (yes, I see it as shaming). I donât care if âeveryone does itâ. It still makes me feel uncomfortable to see tweets like that and to know the fan base will vilify the company based on the tweet. We donât have all the details, but people will automatically support Jared because heâs Jared, ignoring any fault he may have had in the situation (yes, he may have been at fault somehow - we donât have all the facts).
Bottom line: disappointment =/= hate. Itâs okay to disagree with someone or their actions. For instance, you Dear Reader, may disagree with me, and thatâs okay.