Realistically, I don't think any of them are like that!

I think Haechan would be someone who goes through love quite quickly. I can see him dating a lot to figure out what he likes/what he wants. He knows what he likes when it comes to food and music, but there is something about him that makes me feel like he has no idea what he wants when it comes to a significant other. I also think he has a tendency of getting bored.

Jeno: Someone active/enjoys doing active things with him. Someone who brings him out of his shell a little bit more. A leader type. Someone not too high maintenance. Kindness is always, always a must. For him, I would like to see him with someone intelligent and/or cultured. Someone affectionate.

what do you think about it? I just wanted to share lol

btw i’m not saying this is good or bad, just trying to analize jaemin’s personality?? lol

I think he expends energy when he wants to expend energy. To me, Jaemin has always felt like someone who can entertain himself. He enjoys being alone, enjoys doing what he wants to do, and he cannot be swayed by pressure from other people.

He seems like a really simple man. He has his interests that keep his attention. He's genuine with the people around him. He likes to act goofy, just like any other twenty-something around their friends.

Or will not feel comfortable if a third party that he doesn't know entered the chat ?

Jisung. That's no secret. He's always at the top of these lists because he's admittedly timid with people he's just met. He wonders whether he should speak. He waits for the perfect time to insert something witty and often fails at timing. I will give props to Jisung, though. He's really good at being comfortable whenever he's in front of his fans, who are also strangers to him.

For me, Jeno feels the opposite of Jisung. Though shy, I think Jeno can handle himself away from work. He's friendly when he has to interact with strangers. He sort of becomes the human embodiment of a customer service voice. He may want to shrink into himself, but he doesn't. Whereas, when he's at work and talking to fans, I think he has to act comfortable.

Jaemin. He's not entering a relationship unless he feels it checks all of the boxes. He's very realistic, but I do think he clings to the idea that everyone has to be just like him. He strokes his own ego a bit. He believes he has it all figured out, so the people he pursues should be the same.

Jaehyun: He has to be really horny for him to act out. Jaehyun being moderately horny means him kind of ignoring it? I think he treats sex like a chore sometimes, especially when his mind is preoccupied with other things. Like, I can see him masturbating out of thoughtless boredom. However, when he's at his fullest horniness, he's a little bit like a lovesick boy. He needs you. He wants you to know he needs you and wants you. He wants you to want him back, to feel like you can't live with each other. He wants to cuddle, to make love. He, quite literally, wants every last bit of you.

While I do think everyone goes through periods where they might love themselves a little less, I think Kun is really comfortable with himself. I get the vibe that he feels happy with who he's grown up to be. Johnny feels like his self-love has been something hard but necessary to achieve. Jaemin feels like someone accepting of his own flaws, which is a type of self-love, in my opinion, and Taeil gives me a laid back feeling, like, of course he loves himself. To name a few more members: Yuta, WinWin & YangYang.

I think every member can stand to love themselves just a little bit more, even the ones I named above. As always, Jisung is at the top of the list. He's still young and learning to not worry too much about his weaknesses. Renjun lacks a lot of confidence, but I don't think it necessarily translates into the love he has for himself. I still get the feeling like it's something he struggles with, though. Lucas, because I think he's harsh on himself sometimes. Hendery, too.