#jads

I love Scrapeface he's so silly

^ | Collab w/ my sis

you're full, and can't take anything anymore, but there is one, just one last fries left,

we so desperately wanna go into endo spaces, just to see what lies they spread. we wanna see exactly what misinfo they have, so we can correct it elsewhere.

we wanna go in and get serious proof that they are harmful, lying, grooming, and more.

but we also have a persecutor who wants to do that for self destruction reasons.

so we really dont know what to do lol

- JADS

honestly so much of did is socially unacceptable. but i haven't seen many people talk about the lying.

the absolute constant lying, to friends, family, anyone. and not from malicious intent. 99.9% of time its out of fear or its to survive/protect ourselves.

sometimes we need to lie about who's fronting. sometimes we need to lie about how we feel about you.

even if we trust you, some alters may lie because of fear you'll use information against us. its happened before and now we need to protect ourselves.

lying doesn't inherently make you a bad person. it comes down to intent and whether or not its helpful or harmful.

you don't owe anyone anything about your vulnerable self.

obviously there's nuances about all this. but if you're anything like us, forgive yourself for the things you have to do to survive. we've been dealt a horrible hand and you're just trying to live

love you all /p

- JADS

Commission for Jads_i_rutan on twitter of Elliot and Jads enjoying some relaxing musical time together~